I am upset they got away

SocialRetahd · Expert User Joined: Dec 02, 2006 Posts: 762

I am very upset the bullies got away with their physical abuse. I am also upset because I know that this contributes to my shyness. I am affraid to stick up for myself incase I am physically assaulted.

I also like to google bullies from time to time and see what they're up to. A lot of them are living fullfilling lives, which contradicts the theory that bullies end up like shit. In fact, I'm the one that ended up like shit.

I don't know what to do really. I would like to just go after them, and say screw this world, but I am affraid I may change my mind in the middle of it.

Very confused about what to do.

kiki · Newbie User Joined: Aug 26, 2007 Posts: 17

wat goes around comes back around and trust me I hav bn bullied in front of a teacher's face who just sat there and watched and the bullie got away with it

SocialRetahd · Expert User Joined: Dec 02, 2006 Posts: 762

I dunno man, I suffered a concussion and teh stress caused my hormone levels to drop to below normal levels. It's possible that I might of been taller if it wasn't for these incidents.

kiki · Newbie User Joined: Aug 26, 2007 Posts: 17

ye well I got breathing problems coz of her. I wish I knew what you could do but nothing's coming Sad

W1CKEDJO · Posted: Sat Dec 22, 2007 4:36 am Post subject: ^^

That's not right! If a bully has affected you on the long-term front, then they should be punished. Even if it's too late now... think about what's gonna happen to them in the future.

Some people don't believe in an after-life... but all I know is, that when I die, the first thing I'm going to do is visit EVERYONE that has made my life miserable at any point, and make them see just how much I hate them for it.

Twisted Evil

Emma · Posted: Sat Dec 22, 2007 4:41 am Post subject:

I think that this jerk who punched me and held me by the neck should be punished, I have a neck problem now and I was fine before that.
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W1CKEDJO · Posted: Sat Dec 22, 2007 5:48 am Post subject: ..

That really upsets me... hearing about how it's affected other people. Especially if it's created phyisical or psychological problems. It's not fair. These people NEED to be punished!

SadRabbit · Newbie User Joined: Dec 29, 2007 Posts: 4

Punish? The world supports bullying the way i see. Big companies bully small companies to extinction..etc. Sadly, 22 yrs of my life, I got constantly bullied. They said try standing up to their bullies, but it got worst. No one was there to help. Told my parents, my parents took note initially, then laughed it off that i was oversensitive. Reported to someone of higher authority was also a bad move. They not only did not stop the bullying but ended up joining the bullies in taking on me. It almost drove me to suicide.

steviegerrard489 · Intermediate User Joined: Aug 04, 2006 Posts: 116

Danfalc22 · Newbie User Joined: Nov 17, 2007 Posts: 47

Alot of bullies are all mouth most of the time.I mean when i look at the so called tough guys on my estate... or just the ones with rep,they actualy only pick on guys they know they can beat.. i dont know one which would fight someone he wasnt sure he could beat.So that makes em cowards really.. but thats the thing bullies to tend to go for the weak.. so if you come across as an easy target and wont stick up for yourself then they will tend to keep doing it because they know they can get away from it sadly.

Tho i do find this slightly ironic.. seeing as not too long back you sent me a mini message basicaly saying somthing like i looked or was my heritage half italien half monkey monkey.. based on my photo.. on a site where people come for support because there socialy insecure and often are insecure about how they look.Im not saying you deserved what happend to you! cos no one deserves to be bullied,but maybe you should have a think about how you treat people aswell.Im not trying to have another pop at you.. i was already immature wid the messages i sent back to you,but it aint the first time ive seen you do/say stuff like that to people so maybe you need to think how you treat people.

Anyway I know its tough being bullied.. but whatever these guys didnt make you less of a man even tho it must of hurt your pride.I think the best thing you can do is just try and move on if you can reallyIf there still giving you a hard time.. sometimes the only thing ya really can do is face them otherwise they wont go away..you might not win but like i said there cowards and i doubt would try again if they think you will put up a fight.Have you ever considered lifting weights or going boxing or somthing? Im only a short arse for my age at 5ft 4 but i toned up in no time and it does give you a lil confidence... and even with severe sp i didnt find the gym too bad.Try and chanel how angry you feel into somthing constructive.