Post your pics! :)

Prescious · Newbie User Joined: Oct 12, 2007 Posts: 38

Yeah but you still haven't answered the question and
There is a BIG QUESTION MARK as to why you are really here
in this forum because there is no way in hell that you have SA
Do you understand what SA is? People with SA are basically afraid
of the outside world. You are the total opposite

Prescious · Newbie User Joined: Oct 12, 2007 Posts: 38

You know what meow, obviously you are offended because I hit a nerve
but on the other hand if you read my posts very carefully, you
would see that what I am saying to you is not so much of an insult
but rather a compliment. Because basically I am saying is that
you are too pretty and you go out to restaurants too much to
have SA. People with Social Anxiety DO NOT GO OUT. And if they
do like myself, it's once in a while and it hurts them to go out. Or
they go out only in extreme emergency cases like their hungry
or something but other than that people with real SA do not go out
OR they are extremely nervous and self conscious and very
uncomfortable when they go out so they stay home like the rest
of this forum

Now I don't know you and I haven't read the rest of your posts but
to me it doesn't matter what you've written in the rest of your posts
I was just pointing out a fact and the fact is that people with SA
do not go outside or they are very uncomfortable around people
so they stay home. You are too pretty to have SA and you have
proven it by going to that restarant. That is something that most
people with SA would never do. Most people with SA do not have
friends and I bet you that you have friends. People with SA do not
go outside but you go to restarants AND OH MY GOD, YOU MODEL
case closed! You may be depressed but I don't think you
have SA. There is a big difference between depression and SA
Oh well meow I am not trying to insult you so forgive me if
you think I am but I am just pointing out a fact. The fact is that
I don't think you have SA. But anyways whatever your agenda
here is, I guess I should mind my business and worry
about my own problems. I need to try and cure my SA
and my Agoraphobia which I truly know I have

TAMPA-BAY · Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 4:58 am Post subject: agro

Hello prescious maby you have agrophobia and not social anxiety?

Prescious · Newbie User Joined: Oct 12, 2007 Posts: 38

bluenow · Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 5:43 am Post subject:

Your posts to Meow are not complimentary but are rude. Do you really think that every person with SA can't go to a pub? Why don't you share the other places we can't go and a list of the the physical features we all must share to identify ourselves.

jus · Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 7:32 am Post subject: Re: agro

Your pretty quick to judge people yourself...............
but i guess thats alright though yeah ?

Perhaps we could all post up our 'issues' and you decide if we need to be on the site or not ?

Meow · Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 5:32 pm Post subject:

Thank you Bluenow, Jus and Tampa-Bay.

Precious, what you're describing about not being able to go out is Agoraphobia. What makes you think every person with SA can NEVER go out? what about the people here on SA with jobs? how is that different to going to a restaurant? you're still around people it doesn't mean you're comfortable.
Like I said, SOMETIMES I can go out, sometimes I can't. Sometimes I pannic in the supermarket and break out in a nervous rash and blush. I have plenty of symptoms of SA and have been diagnosed with it for 8 years.
Yes I was VERY offended by your post because I don't think the way someone looks has ANYTHING to do with SA or not. Personally I don't find myself very attractive, I see A LOT of faults in myself. I wasn't sure if you were judging me on piercings/tattoos or my looks in general. I'm not flattered or complimented that you find me pretty, I am quite disgusted at your attitude. Yes I do SOME modeling, which means I fit the criteria of what these people are looking for but it doesn't mean I love myself.
You really don't know as much as you think you know, try listening to what EVERYONE else is telling you, how come no one is agreeing with you? Because you're wrong, and i'm insulted to come on here for help and to be told I do not have something because of the way I look Rolling Eyes

Also it's quite an insult to others who have posted their pictures here and in the photoalbum. So they don't meet your standards of what attractive is? Since they can have SA but I can't?... being "pretty" how rude.

shon · Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 6:31 pm Post subject: Re: agro

AnxiousOne · Newbie User Joined: Jan 17, 2008 Posts: 4 Location: Canada

Prescious, how on earth can you judge if someone has SA or not by a simple picture?! That's unbelievable to me. Really it is. So you say Meow is way too pretty to have SA. What exactly do people with SA look like? I wasn't aware there was a certain look. I'm sure you do not like being judged so why are you doing it to other people? You asked Meow what her agenda was here. But I'd like to know what exactly is YOUR agenda here? Most people come to this site to ask advice or share their stories, not to start stuff with other people. So why are you here?

jellybean · Newbie User Joined: Dec 28, 2007 Posts: 61

I get judged all the time for how I look and I hate it. People think that because you have pretty packaging everything else should be amazing and you should be this happy confident person with no problems. Being pretty doesn't protect you from harm or change the way you have learned to react to things. Ive been told Im pretty but it doesn't take the inner pain away. How awful for you to judge people in that way.

I think maybe you shoulld look at that opinion again but Im guessing what has happened is that you would like to be beautiful and feel your not and think that if you were everything in your life would be fine because you would have more confidence etc..if you were thinkinf this dont be fooled as being beautiful doesn't give you a direct pass to happiness it's appreciating your own inner beauty that makes you happy