Can't stop thinking about it

dimsim · Newbie User Joined: Feb 07, 2008 Posts: 2

im 14 this year and ive been bullied all my life people call me fat, stupid, ugly and alot of other names. i get hit all the time i just can't take it any more it makes my life a living hell i just dont know wat to do.
Please help!

AsHLeY · Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 11:20 am Post subject:

Hey dimsim. I suggest that no matter what, you DEFEND YOURSELF! I can't stand seeing anybody get bullied!
These people need to know that you're not gonna take their shit any longer. If someone hits you, hit em back. I know many people will disagree with me and say that "violence is not the answer" but I swear, that's the only way they'll stop. They'll keep it up if you just let them get away with it. Once they see that you actually fight back, they'll move on to someone weaker, like the cowards they are. If you get detention for fighting, who really cares? At least you stood up to them and more importantly you stood up for yourself! If they keep calling you names, try mentioning their flaws. Everybody has insecurities and nobody's perfect ~ they can see how it fuckin feels for once. As long as you never believe the mean things they say about you, you'll be okay. These people are not your friends and never will be, so don't be submissive and don't try to be nice to them.
I know it probably seems like the end of the world since you feel that you're constantly getting picked on but you're 14 ~ you only have a few more years of school to go....and the real world is a hell of a lot different than all your taunted school days!!