Joined: Nov 17, 2007 Posts: 64 Location: New York City
Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 3:16 pm Post subject: Re: friends ignoring you
alex29 wrote:
has anyone experienced this?
Word-for-word bro, thought-for-thought. Exact same experience. Usually if I just get the balls to say "can I come?" they reply with a "sure" and let me in on all of it. That's really all it takes, and trust me, I'm not any more outgoing than you.
Joined: Feb 08, 2008 Posts: 3 Location: Scotland, UK
Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 12:47 am Post subject:
It's so sad
...at lunch i go about with 'friends' but i'm just really 'tagging along'
my guidance teacher even thinks so =[
Non -existant is the way i sometimes feel.
It's probably only cos we're quiet, that's better than being a loudmouth who's always got something to say!!=]
xoxo
Posted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 3:29 pm Post subject: Re: friends ignoring you
spectator wrote:
alex29 wrote:
has anyone experienced this?
Word-for-word bro, thought-for-thought. Exact same experience. Usually if I just get the balls to say "can I come?" they reply with a "sure" and let me in on all of it. That's really all it takes, and trust me, I'm not any more outgoing than you.
Well, no so-called-friend will say 'NO', but when I join them, I still feel left out
yeah exactly -- I doubt they would say "no" but i would feel like I was not really part of the group still. I dont want to have to ask everytime I want to go out while everyone else has a group they get together w/ every weekend
I was speaking directly to my friend today when she started talking about a planned ski trip. I asked all about it, who was going (a bunch of my friends), where were they going, when, etc. etc. "oh that sounds like fun" "yeah it will be a good time"
it makes me wonder why after all this I was not even invited? I dont want to tag along, then I will feel terrible and awkward.
maybe in those situations u should try showing some interest in the event and then they would ask u? if u dont look bothered, they ent gonna invite ya (not saying u didnt look bothered, but by the sounds of what u said u werent) or just inviite yourself...''yeh that sounds wicked, what time?'' lol
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