How long have you been single?

seekeroftruth · Newbie User Joined: Feb 26, 2008 Posts: 21

I am 25 years old and have been single for 25 years. I live with my parents as many other posters do.

It's to the point now where many female peers have played the field and are ready to settle down or at the least be in a serious relationship. I do not believe I am prepared for either and would be skeptical as to my dedication to something of that nature at this point in my life.

I have passed up opportunities before because I am too picky, but my standards are not above any unrealistic thresh hold. I have nothing to say to people about normal things which seems to turn off a lot of woman who want a secure life and partner who has a solid foundation and is "down to earth".

My main regret is I have never been laid or even kissed a girl let alone had any sort of fruitful high school romances like most everyone else.

LonelyGirl · Newbie User Joined: Sep 27, 2007 Posts: 51 Location: UK

I'm 18 and I've been single my entire life Sad

I haven't even met many guys that I'd want to go out with. I'm convinced that most guys think I'm stupid/boring/ugly/weird etc so it's hard to feel that way about them. I have only had two crushes in my whole life.

The only men who have ever shown any interest in me have been way too old for me and had very strong accents that I could barely understand.

Danfalc · Posted: Tue Feb 26, 2008 10:57 pm Post subject:

I met my gf over the net aswell yuiko.And shes the girl of my dreams i dunno how id cope without her now weve been together for like 3 years Embarassed

There is alot of creeps out there and stuff... and you dont really always know who your talking to or if your gonna have any idea of what there really like untill you meet em.But i think its a good way for people with our problems to meet other people.

yuiko · Newbie User Joined: Oct 25, 2007 Posts: 96

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SleepingBeauty · Posted: Wed Feb 27, 2008 1:14 am Post subject:

since forever. But I wouldnt care so much if other people didnt make it seem like such a big deal to be with someone. People make it sound like its soooo stressful to date and crap.... if it is stressful then why date? Dating should be fun, right?

I feel like im not making much sense...im confusing myself, lol

persian · Newbie User Joined: Apr 12, 2007 Posts: 28

I'm 21, had one crappy long distance relationship.
Been single for 2 years now.

I will prolly stay single 'till the day i die. I have social skills of a rock, i'm ugly but at the same time i have way to high standards, suck at everything, no friends, barely go out, i'm weird and different, probably emotionally retarded ... oh, and i'm a loser as well Smile

Quite a catch, hm? Wink

4seasons · Advanced User Joined: Apr 12, 2007 Posts: 381

18 years old, never in a serious relationship.

Kien · Posted: Wed Feb 27, 2008 1:37 pm Post subject:

We must choke our feelings and lose all hope and realize that some (many?) people are not ment to be liked by anyone.

If we could see into the future, I think people like us should be terminated shortly after birth. Smile

gqguru · Posted: Wed Feb 27, 2008 2:01 pm Post subject:

I'm 22, I've been single my whole life. I usually show disinterest to those who are interested on purpose, just to make sure they don't get to close. I don't find the idea of a relationship comfortable- when I'm not comfortable with myself. If that makes sense?!