I would just feel stupid in any sex act. I can't picture myself with a woman, I was never ment to have any love in my life. There is nothing in me that would make a woman like me (no there is no "someone for everyone"). Luckely I don't suffer much from it.
About pre-juc, heh I'm quite sure I would have serious problems with it. Hehe I think I can remeber that I dreamed once that I was about to squeeze a tit, but I woke up before I even reached it, with a wet spot...
I'm 20 if anyone wants to know and I have never had any girl. I dont want any. I want to loose the ability to feel attraction.
Depressed4life wrote:
I am...i am a female. I think like is going to hurt enough to kill me.
Uhm... you're not serious? Why would it hurt? Pushing babies out is known to hurt but making them?
Actually for females, it does hurt. TO some females it hurts a lot a lot and they will have to sex 4 times more after losing their virginity to get use to it. SOme bleed also, remember we have the hymen which needs to be torn up in order for the penis to go inside.
Actually for females, it does hurt. TO some females it hurts a lot a lot and they will have to sex 4 times more after losing their virginity to get use to it. SOme bleed also, remember we have the hymen which needs to be torn up in order for the penis to go inside.
You women have more issues in life than I thought. :/ Still it sounds really strange that reproduction would be so problematic. I mean being afraid of it becouse it would hurt and be unpleasant is not what you connect it with.
Joined: Aug 17, 2007 Posts: 1328 Location: Wales, UK
Posted: Tue Feb 26, 2008 8:13 pm Post subject:
I'm terrified..I mean what if i finish too quickly, o'r i just freeze and won't know what to do, this is why i want it to be with a girl who will respect me and i will respect and love her back, i'm also paranoid about how i look naked. I think that a lot of people are dissapointed after first time sex though, i'm guessing because they expect the girl to act like they do in porn films, but porn films make sex appear sordid and cheap and i try to avoid looking at porn as best as i can, mainly because it makes me frustrated.
lol k I just demystified and gave facts, but apparently no one cares that it's some solid advice..
Not all readers are posters Red. I'm sure it helped someone, be it I did not know this already It would of helped me for sure.
As for the topic, I have my own wildly different views that I reckon most people here will argue against. Go figure.
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Posted: Tue Feb 26, 2008 10:03 pm Post subject: ...
Kien wrote:
Depressed4life wrote:
Actually for females, it does hurt. TO some females it hurts a lot a lot and they will have to sex 4 times more after losing their virginity to get use to it. SOme bleed also, remember we have the hymen which needs to be torn up in order for the penis to go inside.
You women have more issues in life than I thought. :/ Still it sounds really strange that reproduction would be so problematic. I mean being afraid of it becouse it would hurt and be unpleasant is not what you connect it with.
Yes we do. I am actually terrified and due to anxiety, its even worst. I know ppl that said it hurt like hell but having a baby hurts more though.
Joined: Apr 23, 2005 Posts: 982 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: Tue Feb 26, 2008 10:06 pm Post subject:
RedRibbons wrote:
lol k I just demystified and gave facts, but apparently no one cares that it's some solid advice..
Heh.. yeah that does happen alot on here,try not taking it personaly even if it does feel like your blatantly being ignored,theres the 7 post limit,sometimes people dont know how to reply wid being shy and struggle to have a full convo or just take there time ect ect.I found ya advice quite intresting maself btw,always nice to know/hear things from a girls perspective cos it is quite hard for us guys to figre you females out sometimes
Joined: Nov 17, 2007 Posts: 64 Location: New York City
Posted: Wed Feb 27, 2008 3:42 pm Post subject:
Thank everyone for your responses. I want to make it clear that I've been single forever and I don't even remotely expect the chance to even have sex, I was just thinking if somehow sometime, you know.
RedRibbons thank you so much for your post I needed to read that.
What I get from all this is from the outset I'm gonna let her do whatever the heck she feels like and I'll acquiesce. I am in decent shape so I guess that's all right, a bit below average though ....and as for pre-ejac.....we'll see I guess.
Icarus I'll definitely take your advice, I'm not for rushing anything.
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....and as for pre-ejac.....we'll see I guess.