Joined: Nov 17, 2007 Posts: 64 Location: New York City
Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 4:34 am Post subject:
Ok I know this is a double post, and off topic, but I just have to express something and want to know if any other guys are in the same position. I have a lot of female friends and all the time they are talking about how too many of the guys they know are gay and they can't find good straight guys, then they start talking about boys they think are hot. All while I'm standing there right next to them, straight as a pencil, open to everyone. Does this happen to anyone else? Is it not one of the annoying as well as heart-wrenching feelings in the world?
I'm worried she won't like what she sees. my...uhhh...penis...isn't so straight and I'm worried she'd think something was wrong with it or something. It wouldn't cause any problems and it is a decent size ( ), but I dunno
I think I'd rather just go down on her rather than sex so I could get more familiar with her and hopefully more confidant
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Joined: Aug 17, 2007 Posts: 1328 Location: Wales, UK
Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 8:47 pm Post subject:
spectator wrote:
Ok I know this is a double post, and off topic, but I just have to express something and want to know if any other guys are in the same position. I have a lot of female friends and all the time they are talking about how too many of the guys they know are gay and they can't find good straight guys, then they start talking about boys they think are hot. All while I'm standing there right next to them, straight as a pencil, open to everyone. Does this happen to anyone else? Is it not one of the annoying as well as heart-wrenching feelings in the world?
For me, I could talk about one guy being handsome or whatever, but all the while I'm really interested in the person standing next to me.
Now, idk if it's the same for any other girl, but I hide who I like, for fear of rejection, thinking that this guy isn't interested in me, afraid of ruining a friendship. etc. etc.
One of your friends could very well like you, but just isn't saying it. :p
Ok I know this is a double post, and off topic, but I just have to express something and want to know if any other guys are in the same position. I have a lot of female friends and all the time they are talking about how too many of the guys they know are gay and they can't find good straight guys, then they start talking about boys they think are hot. All while I'm standing there right next to them, straight as a pencil, open to everyone. Does this happen to anyone else? Is it not one of the annoying as well as heart-wrenching feelings in the world?
Yeah i know, that feeling of inadeqeucy.
Females are extremely superficial under their clock starts to tick.
Joined: Feb 19, 2008 Posts: 46 Location: The Netherlands
Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 10:40 pm Post subject:
SocialRetahd wrote:
Females are extremely superficial under their clock starts to tick.
Women are anything but superficial, there is so much going on in a man-woman relationship. Especially non-verbally, BUT they are looking for a guy "who get's it". A guy who is tuned into the game, in control and living life.
They might look superficial, because she might act aloof towards you. But don't forget they are approached on a regular basis by men. They will only choose the best and ignore the rest. That's why it's easy to label them as superficial. Once you get some game going for yourself, she will drop the act of aloofness, because you have something to offer, you are able to bring even more fun into her life. Then she will open up and when you come to think about it, why should she open up to a guy who has nothing to offer?
I'm not critisizing you, just keep in mind that the beliefs you have now "females are superficial", are keeping you prison in a beta male mindset. You can choose to change those beliefs or you can stay in your comfort zone forever and nothing will ever change. Search for your happiness instead of being right, prove yourself wrong and find out life is an amazing ride.
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Females are extremely superficial under their clock starts to tick.
Women are anything but superficial, there is so much going on in a man-woman relationship. Especially non-verbally, BUT they are looking for a guy "who get's it". A guy who is tuned into the game, in control and living life.
They might look superficial, because she might act aloof towards you. But don't forget they are approached on a regular basis by men. They will only choose the best and ignore the rest. That's why it's easy to label them as superficial. Once you get some game going for yourself, she will drop the act of aloofness, because you have something to offer, you are able to bring even more fun into her life. Then she will open up and when you come to think about it, why should she open up to a guy who has nothing to offer?
I'm not critisizing you, just keep in mind that the beliefs you have now "females are superficial", are keeping you prison in a beta male mindset. You can choose to change those beliefs or you can stay in your comfort zone forever and nothing will ever change. Search for your happiness instead of being right, prove yourself wrong and find out life is an amazing ride.
I think someone's been watching the pickup artist on VH1.
Joined: Feb 19, 2008 Posts: 46 Location: The Netherlands
Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 11:01 pm Post subject:
SocialRetahd wrote:
I think someone's been watching the pickup artist on VH1.
Yes you are right, I have studied all kinds of seduction and attraction materials in order to become a better more skillfull man. When I read your reply I get the feeling you don't want to change and become a better man in ALL aspects of life. You can critisize me if that makes you feel better (as you also have in other threads), be my guest. Just realise you won't achieve anything by that and you will keep getting the same unsatisfying results.
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Joined: Nov 17, 2007 Posts: 64 Location: New York City
Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 11:24 pm Post subject:
RedRibbons wrote:
Girls can hide their feelings very well.
For me, I could talk about one guy being handsome or whatever, but all the while I'm really interested in the person standing next to me.
Now, idk if it's the same for any other girl, but I hide who I like, for fear of rejection, thinking that this guy isn't interested in me, afraid of ruining a friendship. etc. etc.
One of your friends could very well like you, but just isn't saying it. :p
I feel like you are completely wrong, and at the same time I really hope you are right. All I know is I lack the guts and the balls to make an approach myself for the same reason, I feel like I would ruin a friendship. In fact I'm sure I would and the last thing I need is not to have any female friends, I'm already cut off enough from your species as it is.
eR1k wrote:
Women are anything but superficial, there is so much going on in a man-woman relationship. Especially non-verbally, BUT they are looking for a guy "who get's it". A guy who is tuned into the game, in control and living life.
They might look superficial, because she might act aloof towards you. But don't forget they are approached on a regular basis by men. They will only choose the best and ignore the rest. That's why it's easy to label them as superficial. Once you get some game going for yourself, she will drop the act of aloofness, because you have something to offer, you are able to bring even more fun into her life. Then she will open up and when you come to think about it, why should she open up to a guy who has nothing to offer?
I'm not critisizing you, just keep in mind that the beliefs you have now "females are superficial", are keeping you prison in a beta male mindset. You can choose to change those beliefs or you can stay in your comfort zone forever and nothing will ever change. Search for your happiness instead of being right, prove yourself wrong and find out life is an amazing ride.
I have read this on another website once or it may have been a post on another site. I appreciate what you are saying and I acknowledge that it's true, but I don't want to change myself into a "wild" and "fun" guy, who goes to parties and gets drunk and all that. I am who I am, if girls don't like me right now when I am at my youthful prime, I guess I'll just have to bear with mediocrity/inferiority till I die. I refuse to change myself for others for the sake of being "fun", even if it means passing the chance to contribute to human continuity. What I want in a relationship is a faithful companion with whom we will together hurdle over whatever life throws at us and enjoy each other's company to the maximum. If that's not "fun" enough for females (which it isn't), I guess I'm not meant for a relationship, and being a loner suits me better.
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