Snap!!....I too am nearly 23 and I have only had one boyfriend too!! I tend to look at it this way "ok so I've only had one boyfriend but so what?" I'd rather be the way I am than some bimbo that beds any guy that crosses her path (and believe me they do exist!).
Don't put yourself down, you will find a nice guy, just trust your instincts and don't worry, be proud for all you stand for, personally I'd shake your hand!! *shake*.....lol...trust me girls like us are a dying breed!!
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Posted: Sat Feb 19, 2005 4:19 am Post subject:
Louise82 wrote:
Hello Amaranth,
Snap!!....I too am nearly 23 and I have only had one boyfriend too!! I tend to look at it this way "ok so I've only had one boyfriend but so what?" I'd rather be the way I am than some bimbo that beds any guy that crosses her path (and believe me they do exist!).
Don't put yourself down, you will find a nice guy, just trust your instincts and don't worry, be proud for all you stand for, personally I'd shake your hand!! *shake*.....lol...trust me girls like us are a dying breed!!
Thanks Louise82. We are definitley a dying breed! It's rough, but I will hang in there. Good things come to those who wait, right?
Joined: Feb 03, 2005 Posts: 9 Location: United States of America
Posted: Sat Feb 19, 2005 4:24 am Post subject:
MrMr wrote:
I also think that because we have failed in the past,we set ourself's up for failure the next and every time.i think we need to learn to like and love ourselfs and our lifes before we can expect someone else to.we need to sort our own life and sa out first,as a relationship may only cloud our vision right now.
I have to agree with you. Maybe once we are happy with ourselves we will attract that person of our dreams.
Joined: Feb 03, 2005 Posts: 9 Location: United States of America
Posted: Sat Feb 19, 2005 4:28 am Post subject:
edb wrote:
I'm a 21 year old guy and only have had one girlfriend. I know how you feel. It is near impossible for me to approach someone and start a conversation. The only way I can is if I'm drunk which isn't the healthiest way to go about it. I think I just need to go for it and learn to accept rejection. It's not like every person I talk to will reject me. I used to think that I just smelt bad, but then I bought some good cologne and deoderant so I realized that wasn't it.
Yeah, it's very unhealthy, but drinking has been a temptation for me too. I feel like if I start drinking and if I do something stupid or out of character I can simply blame it on the alcohol. Luckily I haven't gone down that road because I rarely go drinking. But I fear that if things don't improve I may rely on it in the future.
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