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PostPosted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 12:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Of course there is a girl for everyone; a girl that suffers from social anxiety as much as I do and is a loser like me is perfect Laughing

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 3:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Even if she has SA, she might not look good enough or match your personality, and you might not be a good person for relationship even if you long for one. I know I'm not.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 6:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kien wrote:
There is not a right girls for everyone.


The population of the world is huge and i think it's true that there's someone for everyone.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 7:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't. I'm quite sure there is no one for me and most people here.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 7:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

There is someone for everyone, sometimes it just takes awhile to find that someone.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 8:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

BrokenDreams wrote:
There is someone for everyone, sometimes it just takes awhile to find that someone.

God damn stop this freakin bullshit! There is no such rule in nature! Not everyone is build so they have anything that attracts the opposite gender! Not everyone was ever made to mate and such. Understand it! If you feel that no body would like your in an intime way then your probably right! Stop spreading bullshit! Leave your false hope and face the truth. The someone for everyone is just a fairy tale.

And anyway, I feel like it's hardly worth getting someone after 25. It's in real the real youth that any love should take place. And sex after 30 starts to get gross. Sex is for kids.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 9:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kien wrote:
BrokenDreams wrote:
There is someone for everyone, sometimes it just takes awhile to find that someone.

God damn stop this freakin bullshit! There is no such rule in nature! Not everyone is build so they have anything that attracts the opposite gender! Not everyone was ever made to mate and such. Understand it! If you feel that no body would like your in an intime way then your probably right! Stop spreading bullshit! Leave your false hope and face the truth. The someone for everyone is just a fairy tale.

And anyway, I feel like it's hardly worth getting someone after 25. It's in real the real youth that any love should take place. And sex after 30 starts to get gross. Sex is for kids.


Why don't you stop your bullshit first, Kien? Confused

If you took the time to stop being so negative and realise that you don't infact know everything about everybody, then maybe you wouldn't feel so bad.

How do you know there isn't someone for everyone?
Have you scoured the earth and actually looked?

Course you haven't, I don't think many people have. Therefore you cannot say wether it is actually true or not.

Surely it's better to live in hope that it just might be true than depress yourself by thinking it's definately not true...when you don't actually have proof that it isn't?

You never know what's going to happen, just have a little faith Smile

ETA: Your comment about love being for youth or whatever it was is a bit un-true for nowadays aswell...loads of people find love over the age of 40 or even 50!
It may not be really really common, but it definately happens.
You're constantly feeding yourself with all these negative comments that are just a bit un-realistic, you'll never be happy if you continue Sad


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 9:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yes give your self false hope which never gets real, you just gets dissapointed every time you think that it really might happen. Who freakin decided that there was to be someone for everyone? I don't even think God would do that. I don't need a proof for that thing. It's as clear as that poop isn't good to eat. I havn't tried it but I think all of you here are pretty convinced that i it isn't. Why the hell would you love some miserable failure to person? I do not think I would like to have the girl that who knows and likes me.
I feel that people here are refusing to see the truth. I'm sure most common people would find it almost disgusting if we people told that we liked her/him. But I must admit that when I see couples of people walking hand in hand in town I often think "how could she ever want to be with him??", or vice versa in case it's a girl (you get it).

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Fixed some spelling and shit.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 9:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kien wrote:
I'm sure most common people would find it almost disgusting if we people told that we liked her/him.


How do you know that they wouldn't be flattered to have somebody like them?
Most people I know definately would! Wink

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Who freakin decided that there was to be someone for everyone?


Ok...but who's to say there isn't? Wink


My point is that you don't know.
You're trapped in your little bubble, it seems, where everything is all gloom and doom and you aren't willing to accept that not everything has to be like that.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 10:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kien wrote:
It's a clear as that poop isn't good to eat.


I lol'd. Laughing

To answer the OP: Yeah, it seems scary. The great unknown evokes this feeling.

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