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Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 7:59 pm Post subject:
i am and have always been attracted to the rouged, bad boy type and i dont no why, i wish i wasnt. I will never go back out with one again though. I went out with one for 10 years and he took any remaining peice of self confidence i had and crushed it. I did have the guts to leave him though and although im still unconfident im better than i was. When i left my ex i went out on the rebound on a few dates with a bloke who was the complete opposite of him and i just couldnt cope with him, he was way too nice and he just wasnt my cup of tea.
The annoying thing now though is that recently i have met a really lovely guy not my usual bad boy type but just right, hes not bad but he can have a laugh and he has respect for you, hes the kind of guy i have been waiting to come along but hes bloody married The story of my life!!! They are always married
MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women
Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.
But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.
And ANY guy can learn how...
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Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 6:12 pm Post subject: Two reasons I see
1) Certain men put off an aura that helps them get chicks. If they have this aura, or "moxy," since they are able to get chicks, they don't treat the ones they have very well. It is simple supply and demand. Women don't like assholes, rather, the ones that can get chicks become assholes.
2) Feminism has stripped men of their gender role, but female romantic love still needs domination to be sparked, so tall, asshole men are considered masculine. If you find a very Christian, feminine woman, than suddenly nice guys because OK because she is playing out her gender role, therefore, a guy just being a guy is masculine.
It is one or a mix of the above.
Don't blame women, BLAME feminism and blame love. Men and women ARE different, and feminism just gave women ALL the power, virtually guaranteeing they will suffer in love. Almost EVERY attractive you talk to is miserable due to horrible dating, even with having almost monopoly power over the dating odds.
This is why men become liars. We can just LIE and then we trigger their love.
Love is stupid. It works in a male-dominated society, but outside of that, it malfunctions totally.
I feel sorry for men and women that are suffering due to our modern and malfunctioning gender roles, there are ways to succeed.
Men have to date down, learn to lie or just get really lucky and meet that needle in the haystack.
Women need to sacrifice a little love for security.
If you are an attractive woman, and can't find a decent boyfriend in America, where the odds are 100-to-1 in your favor, then your wants are similar to someone who wants a golden unicorn that sh_its diamonds. I'd like to be king of the world, but at some point I have to put my feet on the ground.
I am dating about 5 steps down on the dating ladder. I feel almost no love for the girl I am with.
Try being a guy for a year ... ladies.
Men marry down, women marry up.
I am marrying WAY up in niceness, and way down in looks. I don't plan to have kids. I don't want them to be ugly.
Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 6:41 pm Post subject: The solution
Even with modern women, I will not become what I hate to get one.
I will not.
I will remain calm and take what I can get, and use my time to educate others on how dangerous love can be.
Most women end up getting so burned by love, that eventually they wise up a bit, maybe in their 30s.
Women ALWAYS say they don't date assholes, but are dating assholes right at that second. I knew this one arty feminist girl who claimed to like nice guys, but her boyfriend was fake nice. He had social phobia, but cheated on her constantly. Inside he had no real empathy.
Women like evil because men have lost their power due to affirmative action and feminism.
If you shut down your heart when dealing with women, not hate them, not get emotional, just feel nothing and get used to not treating them well, eventually, those same girls will start to like you.
I am at that stage right now, but most of the time I just go home and use porn. The love I feel for a picture seems more noble than the kind you get from a girl.
Because assholes are pretty, talented, and rich people. Therefore they can get whoever they want and can put down the good people, same as bullies. Goes with women to a lot of the time I say, not as much as men tho.
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