Join the club. I'm 23 and haven't had friends since I was 14. So basically I'm still 14.
It's basically impossible not to be a recluse... forever, or die.
If its a comfort Lenb, most 23 year olds i know haven't aged one day since 14, infact i believe that most people with APD are more mature then others their own age, spending way too much self-reflecting and all that....
Unless being mature is about sosial skills and life experience, in that case im screwed haha.
I do in some ways feel a lot more mature than 20-24 year olds I see on television documentaries or whatever (I'm pretty much homebound). But I don't want to be this mature - it's abnormal.
Joined: Mar 24, 2008 Posts: 147 Location: Mandal, Norway
Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 2:12 pm Post subject:
hartbrokenvirgo wrote:
Dont be ashamed castar.you cant compare yourself to others do what you feel you need to do for yourself.if you feel you want a better education go for it.you want a job go for it.but dont compare yourself to others in your age group.everyone should live at their own pace
If it was that simple, these forums would be dead.
I hear you too well, I just feel like I have alot of lame/immature thoughts. I think to myself, I gotta break this bad habit of being lame/immature! But its so hard. I also feel like I'm set back in maturity..I don't like being around other people, at all..but I want be 'normal' and be around people. So having a job is hard, especially when you are around lots of people all the time.
Dont be ashamed castar.you cant compare yourself to others do what you feel you need to do for yourself.if you feel you want a better education go for it.you want a job go for it.but dont compare yourself to others in your age group.everyone should live at their own pace
If it was that simple, these forums would be dead.
Not necessarily. Just because the answer is simple doesn't mean that it is easy to do.
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