Afraid of females

2Crowded · Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 3:47 am Post subject:

I'm a bit uncofortable around women...ya that's true......but I think I possibly may be getting a bit better as of late in a round about way.

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TopHat · Newbie User Joined: Apr 23, 2008 Posts: 13

I have trouble conversing with women. I tell myself most women are shallow so we would have nothing in common to talk about, but I doubt I'd be able to talk to a girl that I do find genuinely interesting.

coriander1992 · Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 6:10 am Post subject:

Kien · Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 12:22 pm Post subject:

My problem is mostly that I can't have much conversation in general and of course then less with the opposite gender. :/

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streetsk8er794 · Newbie User Joined: Mar 18, 2006 Posts: 22

Watch much Donnie Darko Corriander?

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coriander1992 · Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 3:08 pm Post subject:

Kien · Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 4:11 pm Post subject:

I find it more unpleasant to see a dick. Razz

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miss_amy · Intermediate User Joined: Nov 21, 2007 Posts: 237

You lot make me laugh so much.

I don't feel that scary by the way.

Edith · Intermediate User Joined: Feb 08, 2008 Posts: 106

I'm a girl and I'm uncomfortable around women. I feel so inadequate around them all the time. If they are smart, or sweet, or kind, or gorgeous, or have a great sense of style, or amazing personality I envy them. Basically I find something enviable in every woman I meet... I even envy their flaws because they seem more natural than mine!

I'm strangely more comfortable around men... I can be myself and just relax because they never think of me "in that way" so I never feel pressured or judged and I never fall into the trap of comparing myself to other men.

The only problems arrise when I think that they think that I think of them "in that way"... then I run like the wind!

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Cool_Un_Cool · Newbie User Joined: Mar 20, 2008 Posts: 97

Thanks for advice.