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Borx
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PostPosted: Fri May 02, 2008 9:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

'And once when i was a senior in high school, i got one of my english assignments back, and the teacher had written on the back, "I always save your papers for last. They are always funny and interesting. I wish you would participate in class more." and that made me really happy.'

That is such a cool thing that your teacher wrote , you have obviously alot cool funny thoughts , if only people knew what they were missing , hehe Very Happy

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PostPosted: Fri May 02, 2008 10:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I was standing near this girl, and we got asked if we were friends, and she said, oh no way, I could never be friends with someone like her, she's so creepy.
I used to get told I looked like a pig too


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PostPosted: Sat May 03, 2008 4:41 am    Post subject: Let see.. Reply with quote

So let see, mmm i was in the 5th grade and i was only 9 years old. I had a friend named lets just call her "Elsa" and so Elsa knew i liked this boy who was a 4th grader and he was like 10 years old. SO one time the boy's teacher was absent so they put him in our class and then i was seating in the table with my other classmates when Elsa...the stupid Bi.tch then started saying. She likes, she likes and i thought she was joking and i thought she wouldn't dare to say it...and she said she likes "H" and i was so embarassed. So one of my boy classmates that was on the table got up and went and told him and i overheard them saying....SHE'S UGLY. I went home and cried for hours in the shower. Then in the 6 grade...i gained a lot of weight, had glasses and braces and one of my boy classmate said that i was ugly, and that i would never get marry and have a kid.... Sad..i didn't even do anything to him damn...

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PostPosted: Sat May 03, 2008 10:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

'eww i'm not sitting next to her Shocked '

'she's like a zombie'

'don't tell me you fancy her? omg you are sad if you do. **** likes ***, he is sad! Surprised'

person #1: 'i've always thought that the reason why she never speaks is probably because she's really dumb/stupid'
person #2: 'haha! that's what i thought too!'

i remember there was this popular girl sitting on the same table with 2 boys trying to woo her. she went through everybody's names and asked if they find that person pretty and of course when it came to me they would be like 'nah, she's ugly!' ... then at the end she'd say 'who thinks i'm pretty?' they say 'me! me!' and raise their hands. Rolling Eyes

lol, can't believe i remember this stupid stuff. Confused

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PostPosted: Sat May 03, 2008 11:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well I'm sure there are others but yesterday someone said I look like McLovin. I'm getting sick of people saying that. That was like the fourth person whos said that. They're not meaning to be insulting but it is. I already hate the way I look they don't need to make it worse saying I look like some horny supernerd.

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PostPosted: Sun May 04, 2008 1:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

One of my 8th grade teachers once said
"If you can't laugh at yourself, your life must really suck."
I wasn't very enthusiastic about being teased back then, so I guess that really hit home for me.
If I could go back i'd say to him - "No shit, sherlock!"

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PostPosted: Sun May 04, 2008 5:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

"you used to be cool"

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PostPosted: Sun May 04, 2008 5:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

creep_x wrote:
mom to me "just look at you, you will rot your entire life, you'll be nothing, you will always be a failure"


oh man.. that is awful. ican't believe she said that to you

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PostPosted: Sun May 04, 2008 5:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

miss_amy wrote:
I can't think of a one off comment. I think its a string of constant put downs that have been my problem. Some that stick in my mind are

-my dad calling me a slut and tart and other similar names. I don't understand why, I wasn't, I know now but believed it then but didn't know why or how to fix myself. He once accused me of sleeping with his work friend, he was so nasty and spiteful. I was about 16. I did not do it and to this day it bothers me that he either thinks I did or could say such a thing if he knows its not true. I sometimes wonder whether confronting him over this an asking would help or just make things worse for me.

-'well we expected you to fail' when I failed my first driving test. Again my dad.

-and again......told me I was too thick for further education. i said the school says I'm good enough and he said they would say that coz they get their budget per student.

-ex calling me sack arse and scar belly and that Im absolutely disgusting. He found out that someone at work had asked me out. He stormed in and basically tried to floor the guy and started yelling in front of everyone about how gross I am with no clothes on. Sooooo embarrassed and then I got a warning from work because of his behaviour.


- my gran telling me my baby died because we were not married when he was conceived. How hurtful can people be.



oh my god! that fucking sucks! i hope you are not in contact with any of these people anymore because they sound like poison. i hope you have banned them from your life. you don't deserve that kind of treatment.

people suck

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PostPosted: Sun May 04, 2008 5:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

noblame4 wrote:
(Christ in a barn, the sadistic bullshit people say to each other!!)

Me? well, I had this teacher in the fith grade who would bust me talking (back when i still talked sometimes) in class and chew me out in front of everytone, saying, "Did you take your medicine today?! No, you didnt! I can tell! You are insufferable to me, and everyone else when you dont take your medicine!!" (in grade school i was supposed to take ritalin for ADD that i DIDNT have, when i didnt take the pills, i was a normal, active tomboy, and when i did take the pills, i couldnt ...move. I couldnt talk or play, it made my body feel so stiff and cold. Therefore, 'nobody likes the real you. we all like you better when you dont say or do anything.' That woman made little kids cry all the time. it baffles me that she maintained a career working with children.)

My grandmother/mother figure, "Jessica! You've got to wear makeup when you go outside! Everyone judges you on how you look, and you've got to be pretty for people to like you, and you are not a naturally pretty girl, jessica lane! so get back in there and put on your makeup!" ~she said that all the time. To this day, I'd rather go outside pantless than go without makeup.

One time, when i was 16 or 17, i went to the doctor's office by myself, and this older man (50+) got to talking to me, and suddenly he said, "You know, you have really beautifull eyes. That's your attraction." And even if he was just some pervy old guy, that comment makes me really happy to this day.

And once when i was a senior in high school, i got one of my english assignments back, and the teacher had written on the back, "I always save your papers for last. They are always funny and interesting. I wish you would participate in class more." and that made me really happy.


don't listen to her, girls always look better w/o makeup. well IMO anyway. i have had so many insensitive teachers that i have wondered the exact same thing about. but i don't think it's surprising they keep a career... they just treat it like a job. but sometimes i wonder if there ever was a time when they really wanted to help children, or if they just did like "eenie meenie minie mo" when they were picking careers.

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