Joined: Jul 23, 2006 Posts: 361 Location: -Gulf of Mexico-
Posted: Fri May 09, 2008 1:45 am Post subject: fuck budies
I agree with the previous posts. I mean I know its easy for us to make coments from a distance behind the computer screene;but one day we are all going to have to deal with this situation asumeing we havent already.
I agree dave. I hear that sex is nice and all that but the thing that holds me back from trying it is the consiquences.
Like dave said you are bound to have miss communication and one person might end up with their feelings hurt.
And then there are others stuff like reputations and on and on. The disatvantages just seem to be so.......
Joined: Aug 30, 2007 Posts: 332 Location: south park, colorado
Posted: Fri May 09, 2008 2:21 am Post subject: Re: Fuck buddies?
Edith wrote:
Does anyone one here have a fuck buddy? Just curious... don't know if this is a bad thing to ask but... maybe I've met some people I've been interested in just having a physical relationship with but not anything else. Has anyone else here ever had this or wanted this... you know as an in between while you alone and lonely?
fuck buddies are awesome. I highly recommend it. Good friends with an order of sex on the side
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Sometimes I REALLY NEED a little something ... would it be so wrong... or would that just open a whole new can of worms.... whenever I get like this I feel like calling up this guy I fooled around with after a drunken night at the bar... he's asked me to "come home with him" a few times... but I don't know.... if I knew it were JUST sex I would be OK... or if I knew he wanted more I would even be OK... Jesus! I Just need some lovin"!!! is anyone else out there with me?!
there is nothing wrong with having sex for fun. it feels good and it's a stress reliever. If you live in Canada, I would love to chill with you
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What should I do? should I call when I'm in the mood... or should I leave this alone?!?
Thats a good idea, except it would make me feel weird if that other person was also doing someone else too.
I wouldn't know how to bring it up in conversation with someone you haven't had sex with yet..."I think you're attractive, but I'm not ready for a relationship right now...do you think we could be friends with benefits?" That actually sounds like a pretty bad ass thing to say...As a girl, do you think that would work?
Friends with benefits sounds like it gives you all the great things about dating someone, without the emotional baggage that accumulates.There isn't a break up, just an end to the sex...sounds great to me!
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Physically, it would be very quid-pro-quo. If it isn't, then one of the two is putting in too much emotion into the partnership, and might be expecting a bit of relationship-ness in return.
meh ive had one lol dont go there people! it dont end with a hand shake and u both walk into the sunset, it ends with hurt feelings and nothing gained. its only good while u wonderin wheres it gonna go. when i think about it now,even shoppin ill put my head in my hands like 'god..what was i thinking!'
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