People in clubs are usually low quality in my opinion. I don't really like these type of people. The guys in clubs are pretty scared in my opinion. Probably not to the extent of a social phobic. But usually they need to get really drunk to talk to other people. Icarus if you live in England I'd be happy to hang out at a club with you and I could show u a few tricks to help u start building up ur social skills and talking to strangers. I go to clubs by myself about 2 or 3 times per week to build my character and it still makes me nervous.
Joined: May 07, 2008 Posts: 13 Location: Baltimore
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 1:17 am Post subject:
Yea I hear that. My roommate is like that, confident, outgoing. I've lived with him for nine months and am still not comfortable talking to him. I don't know what it is. He's a nice guy and I'll still live here with for a while, I'm just not comfortable with talking to him.
I'll go to bars/clubs a lot, usually with the same small group of people. The few times I've gone by myself I only had a good time if I ran into someone I knew, which was rare, or if I could get myself onto a pool table. All the girls wanna be on the team with the guy who doesn't lose. Even then I never really met anyone that way since I was still so cold and distant.
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