MY MOM IS GOING TO HIT ME HELP ME!!!

Carol · Newbie User Joined: May 18, 2008 Posts: 63

Forgive me for being disagreeable, but I doubt that running away or making threats or refusing to help around the house will solve your problems.

It sounds like you really want your mom to understand you and care about how you feel. If that is not what you want, then don't bother to read the rest of my response. But if it is, it's not very likely that you will accomplish that by making your mom angry, hurting her feelings or causing her extra stress. I'm not trying to make light of the way your parents treated you or say that it's okay. But if you want to get along with your parents, then SOMEBODY has to make the decision to stop being angry and start being kind. I suggest that you try hard to look for ways to make your parents happy and show that you care about their feelings, and don't respond harshly when they are critical of you. Parents have feelings too, they have bad days just like everyone else, and they want to know that they're loved and appreciated. Showing your parents that you care can change their attitude toward you, and help them want to understand you and want to be more patient with you.

Don't forget that you have a lot of power to affect how everybody else in your household feels! Your behavior can literally set the mood for the whole family. If you make the decision to be friendly and agreeable to your family for the next month, no matter what, you will almost certainly see a difference in the way they treat you.

ReVeR · Newbie User Joined: Jun 01, 2008 Posts: 13

Some people shouldn't have had kids.

my mother is one of those people as well,
she pisses me off so bad, to a point that I start to think i should go out and do something stupid so i could get arrested and go to jail for a couple months
and maby this way i can escape from this

when i was younger my older sister ( which i hate today) was smart enough to see past my moms
so she moved out, and left me and my younger sister to rot

I wish I could leave this shithole but i couldnt leave my sister Rolling Eyes

Depressed4life · Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 1:10 am Post subject:

Aww i have an older sister at least shes nice most of the time. Now my mom is behaving and she even realized that i deserve a party because i never get anything. I definately agree some people shouldn't have kids and shouldn't be parents, specially my father. Take care.

SleepingBeauty · Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 1:30 am Post subject: HOLAAA

WOO WHOOOO!!!! You get a parTAY. Im so happy for you!!! Very Happy

asubscriber99 · Newbie User Joined: May 29, 2008 Posts: 58

I want to give my opinion here, but i don't wanna seem like the "wise man".

anyway, you're stuck in a situation that i experienced, and many others here have experienced too.

personally, i managed to deal with it, and i can assure u, my environment is very cool with me right now.

my advice: 1- leaving your home will only complicate your problems, making you more depressed, and lower your self esteem more, but 2- tolerating all that is self destructive, 3- maybe your family doesn't understand you, in other words; if you SA, try to explain to them your problem, and why you are behaving the way you do, from my experience, most problems happens because of lack of communication, so communicate for god's sake, 4- you seem to be in clinical depression, and this is not bad news, depression results from a lack of chemicals in the brain, if you get the chemical, you're done, so a simple bill will elevate your mood significantly, and you'd be much more happier, but before you do that, see a doctor, and change your miserable life.