Posted: Sun Feb 20, 2005 4:38 am Post subject: why most peeps only think about...
why most peeps only think about sex?
they dont really love someone, they like their body, they dont give their soul, they want sex!
i really hate dat!!
Then don't do it. That they "ONLY" think about sex is likely a cognitive distortion. We think about a lot of things, including sex. We have an appetite for sex, like we have an appetite for food, drink, etc. You really can't blame a person for wanting a meal every day.
Joined: Mar 06, 2005 Posts: 16 Location: United States of America
Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2005 12:37 am Post subject:
Anonymous wrote:
Then don't do it. That they "ONLY" think about sex is likely a cognitive distortion. We think about a lot of things, including sex. We have an appetite for sex, like we have an appetite for food, drink, etc. You really can't blame a person for wanting a meal every day.
That's true but would it be fair to say sex shouldn't be the only thing on someone's mind when they first meet someone? To the first poster I share your frustrations I know how it feels to have a guy only want to talk to me because he wants sex. Not saying girls don't do it too. Having an appetite for something is ok but things are always done better when you can keep them under control.
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well, the higher the testesterone, the higher the sex drive. the younger the male- the higher the testerone. hence, constant thoughts of sex. It's not immoral, it's biological. Most everyone wants and prefers love, and love making over sex without love. But since sex isn't immoral and is a choice between consenting adults, I will have it when it suits me and is a mutual desire between me and my partner. I am not going to let me not having a girlfriend or boyfriend deprive me of my natural pleasures. With that being said I would still prefer a monogamous relationship, but why do so many people try to turn human nature into some moral competitiion? it's not like these people are advocating violence or hatred.
Joined: Feb 18, 2005 Posts: 128 Location: United States of America
Posted: Thu Mar 10, 2005 6:18 pm Post subject:
hmm, thats not all ppl... I only have sex with someone who i think i can love or i do love at the time. we're attracted to the body because if we werent there would be no sex in the first place. If you love somebody doesnt that mean their soul as well? To be honest I don't even like the word soul. We dont want sex all the time... just those who become addicted to it.
Joined: Oct 04, 2004 Posts: 581 Location: New Zealand
Posted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 11:55 pm Post subject:
LilMissTragic wrote:
I only have sex for money!
lmao....joke by the way, If that was the case I'd probably have about 39 pence by now.
lmao
well I only have sex when I look attractive, so far that hasnt happened yet! When people like me have sex it is called rape because it wouldnt be consensual at all.
Sometimes I think it would easier if humans were like dogs. The female comes into season, every hound in the neighbourhood suddenly thinks shes the best thing since doggy biscuits and POW!...she gets her pick of the guys.
Actually, sounds a bit like a sluts night out in a nightclub...lmao. Ohhh that was harsh.
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To be honest I don't even like the word soul. We dont want sex all the time... just those who become addicted to it.
