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zootdroop
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PostPosted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 8:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

tpdarlo wrote:
I agree, but I also think balance is important. Instead of just having a hobby or just having a girlfriend, you should try and have both. Stay busy and stay focussed.


I have many hobbies, I just can't seem to figure out the girlfriend part.

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PostPosted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 8:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

zootdroop wrote:
tpdarlo wrote:
I agree, but I also think balance is important. Instead of just having a hobby or just having a girlfriend, you should try and have both. Stay busy and stay focussed.


I have many hobbies, I just can't seem to figure out the girlfriend part.


Lots of people say why don't you just get a girlfriend? (if it was that easy i would have one, but it isnt) so i dont...

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 1:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't get why every1 hates the title of the thread. Anyway guys I just want to say that the only reason I recommend going to a brothel is because it is the only place where men can practice having sex. I know it sounds wierd but if you are a virgin it can be a pretty daunting experience and it might help you just to get it under your belt.

It may be desperate but at the end of the day maybe you are desperate. It's not sleazy or anything. At the end of the day women don't need prostitutes because it's easy for them to find men to have sex with, so they have experience. And remember they sleep with men based on their looks, their prestige or their personality, they are always exchanging their body for somthing that the man can give them so what does it matter if we are exchanging it for our money?

I wouldn't tell anyone about it though because they tend not to understand these things and see it in a negative light.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 3:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yeah it's tougher as you get older.Sometimes I get angry,other times just really sad that i'm not good enough for anybody.I really feel that life is to be shared with somebody and when you have nobody to share it with,you live a very shallow and meaningless life.I honestly wish i'd go to sleep and never wake up.

You know what makes me mad thoug?When you hear somebody say "there's somebody for everybody" that is so not true.But you know what,everybody gets shit on in life.it just comes in different forms.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 1:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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You know what makes me mad thoug?When you hear somebody say "there's somebody for everybody"


It's because the vast majority of people are clueless, because they speak from the perspective of their life where there are lots of people who want them. Its not even worth discussing issues with them it will just frustrate you.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 1:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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You know what makes me mad thoug?When you hear somebody say "there's somebody for everybody"


It's because the vast majority of people are clueless, because they speak from the perspective of their life where there are lots of people who want them. Its not even worth discussing issues with them it will just frustrate you.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 2:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

shield wrote:
I don't get why every1 hates the title of the thread. Anyway guys I just want to say that the only reason I recommend going to a brothel is because it is the only place where men can practice having sex. I know it sounds wierd but if you are a virgin it can be a pretty daunting experience and it might help you just to get it under your belt.

It may be desperate but at the end of the day maybe you are desperate. It's not sleazy or anything. At the end of the day women don't need prostitutes because it's easy for them to find men to have sex with, so they have experience. And remember they sleep with men based on their looks, their prestige or their personality, they are always exchanging their body for somthing that the man can give them so what does it matter if we are exchanging it for our money?

I wouldn't tell anyone about it though because they tend not to understand these things and see it in a negative light.


If you wrote that because of what i said, i was just JOKING!! I WAS BEING SARCASTIC.

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 2:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

On another forum there were some guys who were saying that sex or intimacy with the opposite sex is very very overrated, and that we virgin men should stop thinking about it, since it's not worth all the effort. They told it in such a convincing and funny way, really funny Smile

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 3:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i have to disagree, granted I haven't read the full thread ( yet ) but I personally feel that without my girlfriend, I wouldn't be around anymore. She really IS everything to me. I'm sure if you find the right person, or even just someone that understands you, is a great help.

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 3:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Of course.. if you both understand each other and love each other unconditionally it'd be wonderful, but having a superficial relationship just because you don't want to feel lonely is not likely to make you happy or solve your problems.

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