Why don't sp girls date sp guys?

sullen89 · Posted: Sun Apr 11, 2004 2:14 pm Post subject: Why don't sp girls date sp guys?

SP girls always date normal guys leaving us to suffer in our loneliness.
It is the same with immigrant women and handicapped women.

licentious

sullen89 · Posted: Sun Apr 11, 2004 4:55 pm Post subject:

I don't like the term "retarded". It is mean spirited. George Bush is learning disabled so don't be so judgemental.

Guest · Posted: Sun Apr 11, 2004 5:14 pm Post subject:

They don't need to date us. Unless they care about honesty, quality of life, and having heartfelt communication with partners. Plus, a really feminine woman is inherently shy, so a really shy girl might think she is just being feminine; thats what gender roles do to people. I'm done acting like a silent man just to look strong...

Adam · Posted: Sun Apr 11, 2004 6:00 pm Post subject:

ann · Posted: Sun Apr 11, 2004 8:43 pm Post subject: sp girls marry sp guys

I can't imagine how hard it must be for SP people to find someone to share their lives with. I am so thankful that my husband and I found one another very early in life--high school. But we were unaware that we had a condition--we just thought we different from everyone else and we just accepted it and went on with our lives. If we hadn't fallen in love so young I don't even want to imagine what life would be like now. But I can't help thinking there must be hope. Another person with SP understands you in a way no one else can. But you may produce children with the same thing--we did. One child came out perfectly normal and the other has very bad SP. Just don't give up. Exclamation

ann

Tris · Posted: Sun Apr 11, 2004 9:28 pm Post subject:

i dont think that women with SA are out looking for someone with it too, why would you wanna be with someone who had the same problem? wouldnt you wanna be with someone who wasnt like you, that way you would be able to learn from them? i think if 2 people with SA were in a relationship together, the problem would never get resolved.

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neddy · Posted: Sun Apr 11, 2004 11:45 pm Post subject:

Some couples who have similar problems can often support each other with their problems. With someone like me who is unable to go out alone (got no friends) don't like clubs or pubs as they make me feel very insecure it is very difficult to meet people of the opposite sex. I am very introverted and I personally find that someone with a good sense of humor and is very extroverted helps to bring me out of my shell.

sullen89 · Posted: Mon Apr 12, 2004 1:17 am Post subject:

Tris, that really does not address the inequity of sp guys being left out.

Tris · Posted: Mon Apr 12, 2004 2:44 am Post subject:

your right it doesnt, but you said something about SP girls not dating SP guys...and SP girls are just as left out....I just wish we could all break out, and i wish there was an answer to everything, but there's not :(

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