I sometimes like the idea of a girlfriend but i think this may be because i see other people having them and i want the attention they get from girls, even though in alot of ways i dont want a girlfriend, and i cant see myself wanting to get married anytime. I just sometimes whish girls would tlk to me and be interested in me, even though in alo of other ways i dont at the same time as i am very shy in those situations. However it is sex that i would like the most really, shield you made a god point, but for some reason for me a brothell would be a last last resort, i just really wish sometimes i will be able to have sex withought going to a prostitute, and have a girl actualy want to have sex with me. But one main thing stopping m doing that is its hard to find brothels here in England, not that ive looked for them, but its not like in other european countries where there are big luxory brothels everywhere. I am 18 and have never had sex or even kissed a girl in my life. People would say "Well how can you not have had the chance to", but i really havn't. This makes me resort to watching porn, which people say is negative and that you should just have sex with a real partner, but if you dont have one what are you expected to do? I have to do something, even though it just makes me wish i could have sex even more
In England and the US everyone is meant to have sex early there is a lot of pressure. In other countries it's not uncommon for men to be virgins until around the age of 30.
Seriously, what I mean is that what others have been saying is correct. You're barking up the wrong tree. It's nice to have a significant other but it's not gonna solve your problems and will only make you happy and confident for a short while if you're have social anxiety. I did finally get married and after 7 years of marriage my wife and I are doing very well but sometimes she drives me batshit. That's marriage. It's not about holding hands anymore.
Anyway, one other point... Don't sweat not having a gf in your teens or even your twenties. Hold on til your 30s and the playing field really starts evening out and you'll find it much easier to meet and relate well with women. Especially if you have a job and money by then.
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Posted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 1:02 pm Post subject:
shield wrote:
In England and the US everyone is meant to have sex early there is a lot of pressure. In other countries it's not uncommon for men to be virgins until around the age of 30.
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And what other countries are these? In the past they probably had sex even earlier due to the earlier life expectancy.
Joined: Nov 21, 2005 Posts: 270 Location: Sydney, Oz
Posted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 2:39 pm Post subject:
Rabindranath wrote:
Often, Muslim countries with high unemployment.
I read somewhere that some of those Muslim countries, people have quite active sex lives contrary to belief. They have their Muslim "laws" though, which do seem a bit extreme.
Girls are great. I suffer from this severe mental disease and can't enjoy female companionship - saying that girls aren't great doesn't make me feel better, since I know it's a lie.
Girls are great. I suffer from this severe mental disease and can't enjoy female companionship - saying that girls aren't great doesn't make me feel better, since I know it's a lie.
Well if you look at people who don't have women they are often happy. Buddhist monks have been scientifically shown to be among the happiest people in the world. I think social contact is essential for health not neccessarily girls.
Girls are great. I suffer from this severe mental disease and can't enjoy female companionship - saying that girls aren't great doesn't make me feel better, since I know it's a lie.
Something you don't know about and you claim its a lie?
Relationships are over-rated, women are unnecessarily complicated, I am very happy to be single.
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