I don't like anyone...

Graz · Newbie User Joined: Jul 06, 2008 Posts: 1

I think it's easier to hate or dislike someone when you have SA. I am extremely judgmental and invariably look for faults rather than the good in a person. I also feel much more confortable when I am alone. This is a huge problem because I am married with two daughters. I think Mickey Rourke summed it up pretty well in the movie "Barfly" when he said, "It's not that I don't like people, I just feel better when they're not around".

Predacon · Intermediate User Joined: Jul 03, 2006 Posts: 160

I think that quote sums things up for me perfectly Smile

zootdroop · Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 11:28 pm Post subject:

I find it really hard to like people too, I just don't trust them, I always have this fear people are talking behind my back. Plus if I get to know someone I usually get annoyed at them for one reason or another, for their personality or political beliefs or something. That's why I usually stay away from people cause If I don't know them very well I can't hate them for something.

KeepItPoetic · Newbie User Joined: Jul 06, 2008 Posts: 14

I thought i was the only one who felt like they didnt like anyone at all, i think im a very genuine nice person and i feel like when i talk or see someone i can always pick up the evil in them and i dont see any niceness so it discourages me from speaking, i just get so uninterested in many people i block out possible friendship because i know once they see im uncomfortable they'll judge me and it wont work out anyone...this world only accepts outgoing friendly people and when ur not like that they outcast you, no matter even how good you look...this is one of the main reasons im so bitter that i cant like anyone

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jinxed · Intermediate User Joined: Mar 18, 2006 Posts: 298

asubscriber99 · Newbie User Joined: May 29, 2008 Posts: 58

I have the same problem, it stems from the fact that i probably don't know how to deal well with people.

as a rule, people like who makes them feel good about themselves, being funny, educated, have an amazing smile,......etc

if you don't know how to make people feel good around you, the probably won't like you that much.

the good news is that it's workable! how you deal with people will improve dramatically as your experience grows, and as you read more about friends, people and relationships.

normal people might find it awkward or silly to read about this stuff, since it comes naturally to them, but never care.

Psychedelicious · Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 4:53 am Post subject:

I hate people.

CrystalBear · Newbie User Joined: Jul 21, 2008 Posts: 11 Location: CA

I think I'll often dislike people because I think they dislike people... which is often due to my anxiety. I try to dislike them first so I wont be hurt by their rejection. It causes alot of problems with creating friendships.

Also I have a hard time letting past arguments go. If I argue with someone once I feel like there is no way they could ever like me again. Usually I can never rebuild trust in our relationship as friends again.

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Victor · Newbie User Joined: Jul 08, 2008 Posts: 31

I'm quite a loner. It's not like I really hate people or feel awkward around them, but I get tired of them soon enough. After I am around people for maybe a couple of hours, I really begin to dislike them and I only wish to drive or walk away to recover my missed solitude. It's not like people are uncomfortable around me either, but I often feel like they are more friendly with one another than with me. Whenever I join a group of some kind, I always feel like an outsider, even more so than other guys that happen to join after me.