Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 1:15 am Post subject: Re: Does anyone else not care about sex?
bigDean636 wrote:
Helyna wrote:
It seems like every male in the world is obsessed with sex.
Fixed.
When did I say this? When did anyone say this? It wasn't on this topic. I know I often forget what I've said, so I searched it, and it wasn't on any other topic, either.
On a completely unrelated note, do you believe in mind-reading?
Pyrophosphate wrote:
Maybe you just read too many of the wrong topics?
Maybe. But I do seem to stumble on the girlfriend-sex sort of thing a lot when I'm browsing the latest replies - the topic subject doesn't warn me - and there's more that I skip over because the subject does.
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Posted: Thu Aug 21, 2008 12:37 pm Post subject: [b]Am i Right or Wrong?[/b]
every 1 in this world doesnt hav the same likes and dislikes. if tat kind of taste exsist also the world will be too boring. each 1 does hav their own values and principles. accepting others will definitely bring understanding. tats needed in this hour to think about sex.
I want it. But i feel to pressurised. Its not fair, plus its not easy, because guys have to make their own way. While girls usually can pick whoever they want.
I'm not obsessed. Nor interested. I mean, I do it for the pleasure of my boyfriend, and it's great and all... but it's like the last thing I'm thinking of because of my agoraphobia and anxiety. I was ALOT more interested before I got ill.
Most males on this site are probably terrified of sex, not that they don't like it, they probably want it more then anything, its just that there(me) to afraid to try and get it. They would rather jump off a bridge then just go ask a girl out, well some of us. On this site that is.
Posted: Sat Oct 04, 2008 4:49 am Post subject: Re: Does anyone else not care about sex?
Helyna wrote:
I'm 17, female, of course, and I don't get it. It seems like everyone on this site but me is obsessed with sex. I'm just not interested. I wonder sometimes, is something wrong with me?
Not really I am a guy who is 19 and I do not care about sex, that should be saying something. I feel like that makes me feel isolated from other guys because it seems like sex is all they care about and want from girls. They act like I should want the same but I don't. I honestly want to get to know a girl as a person and like her personality but it seems like I am the only one who feels that way.
Posted: Sat Oct 04, 2008 10:08 am Post subject: Re: Does anyone else not care about sex?
Helyna wrote:
I'm 17, female, of course, and I don't get it. It seems like everyone on this site but me is obsessed with sex. I'm just not interested. I wonder sometimes, is something wrong with me?
I believe that might be kinda wrong. Most people on this site, are here to socialize, maybe make some friends, and maybe make some relationship. Most would rather have a good boy\girl friend then sex. Either sex once, or lonely for along time, what would they pick? Im nearly 18, sure sex would be cool, but I would hugely rather have a good relationship then sex.
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Posted: Sat Oct 04, 2008 4:02 pm Post subject:
katieluckern wrote:
I'm not obsessed. Nor interested. I mean, I do it for the pleasure of my boyfriend, and it's great and all... but it's like the last thing I'm thinking of because of my agoraphobia and anxiety. I was ALOT more interested before I got ill.
Yeah, I feel the same. I do it to make him happy, mostly. There is too much on my mind, it's hard to think about relaxing and getting into it when i'm not happy with myself. But I think about it alot, me being someone different and confident and letting all that go. I'm definately interested, just not comfortable enough to really want it, yet.
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Posted: Sun Oct 05, 2008 1:45 pm Post subject:
I try my best to avoid thinking about it, and i avoid watching sexual scenes in films because it will only lead to frustration. I used to occassionaly look at porn on the net but it's unhealthy to view sex in this way. So for me ignorance is bliss!
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