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Dodger
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 05, 2008 8:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

So I guess it is hard for all of us to talk to people of the opposite sex. I wish I could figure out where shy girls hang out.

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 05, 2008 11:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kien wrote:
Girls don't like nice or shy guys.


Oh yes they do. Not all girls are into showy confident guys. Some girls are really attracted to quiet guys.

To the original poster - I think the trick is not expecting too much from it. Get to know her at your own pace, but don't expect any big results. Sometimes it can take a girl a while to work out if she likes someone. At least that's what my friends tell me.

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 05, 2008 11:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dodger wrote:
So I guess it is hard for all of us to talk to people of the opposite sex. I wish I could figure out where shy girls hang out.

That's an interresting question.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 1:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kien wrote:
Dodger wrote:
So I guess it is hard for all of us to talk to people of the opposite sex. I wish I could figure out where shy girls hang out.

That's an interresting question.


what do you mean?

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 2:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Where shy girls hang out.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 2:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

There is a girl i have a huge crush on at work. She walks passed me all the time and always looks bored. Sometimes she looks at me and it is so nerve-racking. So yeah girls are hard to talk to. Sad

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 8:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Not sure if it really means anything but I did eat lunch with a girl today.

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 10:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kien wrote:
Girls are all the same! Very Happy They are all evil and strange!


You've seriously been hanging out with the wrong girls. The kind of girls you are interested in are the ones who appear attractive, but have nothing on the inside.

The second you look beyond looks alone you'll find some great girls.

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2008 9:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I usually find girls that I find attractive the hardest to talk to.

It's the fact that I feel like I have to watch what I have to say to them and act towards them because I want them to notice me.

But that never really goes as planned Laughing

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PostPosted: Tue Oct 21, 2008 5:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Eledee wrote:
if guys are very forward, i run the other way!


In other words: if they don't run away, you do.

I agree though. If anyone has the nerve to talk to me, I know they're too outgoing for me... and if they don't, we pass silently.

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