one comment which has affected your confidence

bleach · Posted: Sun Oct 05, 2008 1:16 am Post subject:

One girl said I am cute but have a horrible personality. So that one could go either way I guess.

PDJ · Newbie User Joined: Oct 05, 2008 Posts: 2

I've gotten the half insult half compliment like "You're kind of cute for an asian guy."

But most comments are usually behind my back.
"Oh gross, the back of his head looked okay until he turned around."

And that was why I didn't ask a girl out for the next 10 years

Socially_Retarded · Posted: Sun Oct 05, 2008 7:28 am Post subject:

I was once told

"your ugly you've got a big nose"

Its moments like that u wish u could freeze time so u can think of a good answer, instead of

"Oh, umm yea it is isnt it" Confused

thinking about it now I wish id said

"yeah and I can smell you from here, take a shower!"

Goku_ODPhi_1987 · Newbie User Joined: Sep 28, 2008 Posts: 12

The last girl I dated was last summer, we dated for a week and she broke it off the day before we were supposed to go on our second date, two weeks later after I cried my eyes out I talked to her for the first time since she ended our dating and I asked her why, and she gave me three reasons which I will never forget, that I was too...

(1.) girly
(2.) sensitive
(3.) dorky

That hurt... Confused

And here's the only picture of me and her, this was taken the day before she broke it off with me, I don't think I've ever looked happier in a photo... Sad

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miniheli · Newbie User Joined: Sep 19, 2008 Posts: 23 Location: Earth

I think I got bullied by my teacher when I was a senior last year in my high school! I never told anyone this, but it was so strange, why would a teacher pick on me in such a way? I was sitting in economics class which was well in the 2nd semester. I had the habit of always wearing my old blue jacket (which I used to love). I always washed it, and kept it clean. But one day while we were practicing bartering (exchanging one tangible item for another). Anyways I was sitting down in class and I had to pick a partner. There was this nice looking girl next to me and she asked, "want to be partners" I said "sure".
We had to pretend to barter/exchange the things we have. "she asked I will take your shoes" I jokeingly said "no". Than she asked "how about your blue jacket?". When she said that, me teacher look towards my desk. Everything was going well and we were laughing. Than after all of the students and I were finished exchanging. My teach told us a story. Usually I love his stories, which are usually pretty funny. But I didn’t find this one so funny. He said "let me tell you what happened in my other econ class a couple of years ago here". "I had a student which was sitting in that chair right there" HE POINTED AT MY CHAIR!!! "And this student always wore the same jacket every single day, it was this bage color, dirty jacket, I don’t think he had ever washed it" Everyone was looking at me because they all knew as well as the teacher knew that I always wore the same blue jacket! "he was bartering like how we are all doing now, and he wanted to trade with this girl" He than said "the girl said ewwwww, because the kid with the old dirty jacket was trying to tempt her with the disgusting jacket" During all of this, I pretended to smile, but I was never more embarrass in my whole life. They all looked at my table and at me, they all were thinking of me. Than the worst part happened to me, the girl I was working with said "eewww to the ground and than she turned her head and whole body away from me.

The teacher I had was nice, but for the whole year I had a feeling he sort of hated me. He always gave me a good grade, but I think he felt obligated to since I am a special ed student.

What happened to me that year in high school made me so depressed? I went home and locked the bathroom door and started to cry. I don’t understand why he would do that to me, I know he thought I was weird I know he thought I was strange but why would he do that to a person with not much confidence.

recluse · Posted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 7:02 pm Post subject:

[quote="Goku_ODPhi_1987"]The last girl I dated was last summer, we dated for a week and she broke it off the day before we were supposed to go on our second date, two weeks later after I cried my eyes out I talked to her for the first time since she ended our dating and I asked her why, and she gave me three reasons which I will never forget, that I was too...

(1.) girly
(2.) sensitive
(3.) dorky

That hurt... Confused

And here's the only picture of me and her, this was taken the day before she broke it off with me, I don't think I've ever looked happier in a photo... Sad

That must have hurt, especially as you looked so happy in thst pic. I don't get the 'sensitive' part...What do women want? Do they want a cold heartless guy?....God women are so confusing sometimes! Rolling Eyes

Ok kr2snow........Hmmmmmm positive....Well i was told by a girl that she liked my personality. I much rather people to comment on my personality anyday.

rado31 · Expert User Joined: Sep 15, 2006 Posts: 694

one that really spoiled my day is when one girl tried to approach me and other said to her not to to that because i m complicated (that was some women intuition thing, i dont remmber seeing them before. i know i m complicated but i wonder why did i have to hear that - they were standing at least 10 meters away from me) Confused

silentworld · Newbie User Joined: Oct 07, 2008 Posts: 20

I dont remember very well, i kinda blanked out all of that crap, but my confidence has been affected always mostly by me, im very hard on myself anyway

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kyle · Posted: Wed Oct 08, 2008 1:39 am Post subject: