Joined: Jan 29, 2005 Posts: 9 Location: United States of America
Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2005 2:02 am Post subject:
I cry sometimes too. For no reason at all, i just hurt inside soo bad and it comes out, but i usaully feel better after, so i try not to keep it in, it depends on where i am of course i dont wanna cry in public. it used to like once a week, now its only once in a while so maybe im gettin better, i sure hope so. i dont wanna be like this anymore.
Joined: Mar 13, 2005 Posts: 5 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: Sun Mar 13, 2005 9:01 am Post subject:
Crying can be a good thing. It gets rid of lots of pent up emotion and kinda clears the system for a while. It means you are feeling something at least.
I haven't cried for myself in years, I find that I can't do it anymore. sometimes I feel so sad all I want to do is curl up and cry, but I have just become so numb inside I find I can't feel anything anymore, not for myself at least.
I cry at sad films, and comic relief and stuff like that. but as far as feeling anything for myself, I have spent so much energy as a child trying not to cry, I have lost that ability.
Joined: Aug 30, 2004 Posts: 189 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: Sun Mar 13, 2005 3:11 pm Post subject:
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theres nothing wrong with crying. it takes strength to show your emotions. theyre nothing to be ashamed of.
Anyone see Richard and Judy last night? (or the night before; can't remember). I just turned on when they were interviewing someone who was saying how tears are right in front of our face for a reason, and not tucked behind our leg or something lol. We're intended to show our feelings for survival's sake. Seeing as phobias are a survival technique too, I suggest we accept crying as recompense from nature : )
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Joined: Dec 14, 2004 Posts: 60 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: Sun Mar 13, 2005 5:16 pm Post subject:
I cry all the time i went quickly from being very happy and confident to suicidal an it really gets me down i often wonder if i will ever be happy again, im not scared of crying be it in public or in private i am human and have feelings and im not scared of that jus wish i would get a bit of luck and be happy again !!!!
Joined: Mar 31, 2005 Posts: 34 Location: Australia
Posted: Fri Apr 01, 2005 5:39 am Post subject:
I havent cried for years and years. Possibly about ten or so years if not more. I get to the stage i almost do. Then it goes away. Forcing it doesnt help either.
I want to cry... mind you after this long id probably explode of salty water.
Damien
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Confident and sharp, witty and smart.
In this foggy haze I am staggering
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Joined: Mar 31, 2005 Posts: 34 Location: Australia
Posted: Fri Apr 01, 2005 8:27 am Post subject:
Pure? Who's in that?
Damien
_________________ Why can’t I be like the man in the mirror?
Confident and sharp, witty and smart.
In this foggy haze I am staggering
Chains of fear forever dragging.
a lot, especially at the end of a long, shitty day, know what I mean? Maybe a day I had high hopes, and fell short. My favourite place to cry is in the shower, nobody can hear me, and there's water everywhere!!
Joined: Mar 31, 2005 Posts: 34 Location: Australia
Posted: Sat Apr 02, 2005 10:54 am Post subject:
I looked up Pure. its not even out in Oz yet i dont think......
Damien
_________________ Why can’t I be like the man in the mirror?
Confident and sharp, witty and smart.
In this foggy haze I am staggering
Chains of fear forever dragging.
i cry after job interviews like yesterday i went for an interview and all week i was telling myself its ok theres nothing wrong with you theres nothing to be worried about you do fine just breathe...but like usual mouth goes dry heart starts pounding and i the thoughts start " when i introduced myself did i say it really quietly" is she looking at what im wearing, i shouldnt have worn this" "she thinks im fat i can tell" "oh god she thinks im a freak" "already ive blown it, stupid, stupid, stupid" and then i cant wait to escape, and thats the first 2mins then i drive home feeling absolutly miserable at how pathetic i am, i get home slump myself on the couch and the tears start, its not much different with meeting new people except i dont cry and i usually feel better when its all over.
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