this sucks! i never had a girl in my whole life!

crazyfairyx · Posted: Sun Jul 10, 2005 10:04 am Post subject:

My boyfriend was almost 19 when we started going out, and I was his first g/f, his first kiss, everything. He was well nervous with me to begin with, but I felt the same with him. So don't worry too much, not all girls are shallow and want guys with lots of confidence / money / cars. If you get the opportunity to get a g/f and you get worried and think you want to 'run' if she is the right girl for you, she'll talk you round and make you realise it's not all that scary.

Don't lose hope xx

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rfnatboy · Posted: Sun Jul 10, 2005 12:37 pm Post subject:

as a 28 year old who never had a gf but i know if i would had aproach a girl that would be different . the point they wont come to you .

Horatio · Posted: Sun Jul 10, 2005 1:21 pm Post subject:

Im 22 and have no idea how to succesfully attract a girl and form a meaningful relationship.

Having SP is defintely a HUGE set back for guys

Being fat and ugly doesnt help either

ColdFury · Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2005 3:02 am Post subject:

abc1234 · Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2005 8:21 am Post subject:

i understand completely how u all feel im 21 and have never had a girl friend and i want one so bad but i have such a hard time telling people how i feel.awhile i meet this awsome girl online we had so much in common she wasnt on as much so i asked for her number its been like a month now and i can grow the balls to call her im so pathic

Kalima · Posted: Mon Jul 18, 2005 9:14 pm Post subject:

All you guys up there with comments about relationships or what you consider a lack thereof, take heart. I know it's easier said than done. I'm a girl and I did date before. But trust me, dating isn't what it's all cracked up to be. We all see the cute couples on TV, kissing, holding hands and all that other "good, fun-looking stuff". but real life just isn't like that. Just look at the divorce rate in the US, about 50%. So just imagine, people get married and don't even stay together. Relationships without marriage are usually even more unstable.

Don't worry, someone will come along one, and you'll fall in love (sounds like a fairy tale huh). Anyway, I think what happens is that we think another person will fill up a void in out lives. But you can find someone and still have a void maybe an even deeper void. So take care of YOURSELF first and relationships will come in due time.

Kalima · Posted: Mon Jul 18, 2005 9:22 pm Post subject: