so sick of being a lesbian

Sue · Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 1:24 pm Post subject: so sick of being a lesbian

being a lesbian is hard when you dont know who else is a lesbian but its even harder when you dont have the "balls" to talk to other women. where do you start if you have sp and zero confidence? Mad

Remus · Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 1:32 pm Post subject:

are there no gay bars near you?

perhaps online dating, that encorperates gay/bi people

or a newspaper add?

guess when you are out its hard to pull if you havnt got a "I'm a lesbain and I'm single" T shirt on, who knows whos what?

guess my advice seems stupid and patronising as I have no idea what the "gay scene" is like, even though I go to Manchesters Gay Village alot

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Sue · Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 1:43 pm Post subject: all men

the gay scene here is all men. women dont seem to want other women to know what they are.im not out to pull although it would be nice but im just looking for a bit of a laugh Confused

black_mamba · Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 4:34 pm Post subject:

I aways wondered how lesbians met other lesbians. Shocked

Online dating seems to be the way to go at the moment, esp for an SP sufferer, you can get to feel comfy with someone (+ find out their sexuality too) without too much anxiety.

I think its a great idea, as long as you're clear with your intentions its a good way to meet people. I know it has a bit of stigma attached to it still but don't let that put you off. Smile

Sue · Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 4:38 pm Post subject:

i would feel strange about meeting someone that iv been talking to on the internet but love chatting. the only problem is that everyone is obsessed with sex and deosent want to talk about anything else..i understand the whole sex thing but im not sex mad.

black_mamba · Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 4:46 pm Post subject:

I understand, but seriously there are people out there don't just wanna talk about sex.

Why would you feel strange about meeting someone from online? *thinks*

Ok yeah it definitely has that 'this is crazy' feeling about it, but I don't think its a rational feeling. People online are just people. Sometimes online personas are different to real life ones though - something to be wary of.

Sue · Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:07 pm Post subject:

i always wanted to talk to chat with you. your advice seems sound and im a huge fan of kill bill.

black_mamba · Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 5:09 pm Post subject:

No way! Cool its my favourite film of all time and I love well filmed violence, I never really took notice of tarantino until kill bill came along well yeah and....

You shouldn't have got me started, I will never shut up about that film. Very Happy

So anyway....favourite character?

Sue · Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 8:22 pm Post subject:

who do you think girl the lovely uma of course. sorry bout late reply im running all over the house. i have seen kill bill 1 and 2 more then any other film except aliens. im a huge sigourney weever fan.

Sue · Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 8:26 pm Post subject:

weaver not weever god i cant even spell her name.what kind of fan am i? LOL