Why don't sp girls date sp guys?

Orlando · Posted: Fri Jul 30, 2004 3:01 am Post subject:

Regal 70,

I think you are right! It's doesn't seem that she is very patient. Trust does take time. I really don't give my life story to everyone I meet. I guess the woman that I would really be attracted to would be one that would be accepting of my quiet nature. I'm not sure if that is the same with you but that's how I feel.

-Orl

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Regal70 · Posted: Sun Aug 01, 2004 1:51 am Post subject:

I agree. I'm trying to work on being a little more talkative, but I doubt if I will ever be a very outgoing person. I don't even know if I want to be, either. So, they either have to except it or tough luck. If they are going to reject you anyway they might as well be told up front accept it or take a walk. Maybe I'll be alone forever, but if they are going to reject you anyway because of it so it really makes no difference. I think we come off too "wimpy" (even if we really arn't) to woman in general -so that alone might help. Also if we don;t care any more if they are going to reject us we won't be as quiet. I know saying it is easier then doing it , of course. Everyone else expects acceptance about everything else, so why shouldn't we.

Orlando · Posted: Mon Aug 02, 2004 4:04 am Post subject:

Regal 70,

I was just thinking about what you said about being percieved by women as "wimpy." I was just thinking of Scott Peterson or this Mr. Hackings guy (men alleged to kill their wives). These were guys who lied to everyone (thier family and friends). They were just totally fake. If I am wimpy, fine. I'm not going to be fake and put up an extreme masculine fascade. I rather be me. I don't want to be a 'guy'. If their relationships were so screwed-up because they needed to prove to themselves they were a man's man, then I don't want it. I rather just have a good relationship.

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-Orl

crashmodem · Posted: Wed Aug 04, 2004 9:09 pm Post subject:

Its the confidence issue, i have confidence in how i do my job, but with around women.. ha.. well i have a better chance of being nominated for Miss Universe, then get the confidence that i need around women.

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