I just quit my job recently, sp was killing me, the job was really fast paced and it was all customer service and sales. I couldn't handle the pressure, i worked there for over a year and never made a friend just aquaintances. Office dinner parties were....well, you can emagine. I'm still going to look, but maybe just a small call center, i think i can deal with cs issues over the phone. People will always be there, you have to overcome the fear, You shouldn't let some jackass who can smell fear from a mile away steal your success. Just work hard, watch for the troublesome coworkers and you'll be fine. You don't have to be mister social bug of the year just to keep a pleasant working environment. Save the fun for the weekends.
Joined: Jun 07, 2005 Posts: 44 Location: Australia
Posted: Thu Sep 22, 2005 8:34 am Post subject:
I haven't worked much, did a day last yr, feel so ashamed of myself. But l'm in good company here Doing voluntary work this yr, but it's in a really peopled gossipy environment, so l'm completely stressed. I'm getting heaps of comments and subtle bullying, if this is what voluntary work's like, do l really want a paid 5 day a week job? Don't think so. No no, just better with less people about. I still believe voluntary work's a good option. Good luck with yours Bexi
Joined: Jun 21, 2005 Posts: 55 Location: Singapore
Posted: Thu Sep 22, 2005 10:16 am Post subject:
But how are u to survive just doing voluntary work?In my country singapore...no work means no money to survive ,every things needs money ,even going to see my psycharist.I have to get a job soon...
Joined: Aug 04, 2005 Posts: 104 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: Thu Sep 22, 2005 11:49 am Post subject:
Boundless wrote:
Feel sorry for people who dont get the same treatment i do,our nhs covers my bills and the people i see are free,i also get 220 pounds a month(around 400 dollars) to help me by,not fully sure how it works in other countrys.
Dose anyone else get money for having this condition, I have just been diagnosed with Social Phobia, Can I get montry help!?!? I have got a mortage to pay for and I have come out of work
Joined: Jun 09, 2005 Posts: 334 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: Thu Sep 22, 2005 12:12 pm Post subject:
I haven't worked for 9 months
I've never had a decent job or a career, but I've always tried to find jobs I can cope with in terms of my anxiety. I haven't got the confidence to look again at the moment.
Joined: Jun 29, 2005 Posts: 99 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: Thu Sep 22, 2005 9:06 pm Post subject:
I'm also can't work either at the moment due to Socialphobia,and I hate it too! Although next week I've got an appointment with a careers advisor who specializes in helping people with personal difficulties and problems to find work and a suitable job. So I'm hoping I'll be able to find something that suits me. So wish me luck
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Doing voluntary work this yr, but it's in a really peopled gossipy environment, so l'm completely stressed. I'm getting heaps of comments and subtle bullying, if this is what voluntary work's like, do l really want a paid 5 day a week job? Don't think so. No no, just better with less people about. I still believe voluntary work's a good option. Good luck with yours Bexi 
Although next week I've got an appointment with a careers advisor who specializes in helping people with personal difficulties and problems to find work and a suitable job. So I'm hoping I'll be able to find something that suits me. So wish me luck