Are you a good judge of charecter?

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How well do you judge other peoples charecters? Do you consider yourself to be a good judge of people or are you constantly falling in with the 'wrong crowd'?.

redlady · Elite User Joined: Jul 08, 2005 Posts: 1958

I don't fall in with the wrong crowd - the way i look and act sort of ah, ensures that.
But as for judging someone's character - well i like to observe people and i take note of everything that they do to get a better take on them - Noone has shocked me yet.

sensitive · Posted: Mon Oct 10, 2005 10:31 am Post subject:

well, i used to think i am a good judge of people. no longer because as a social phobic, i expect from people to be always nice, gentle with me. i mean we are not (at least me) not objective in judging people, we are (at least me) emotionaly delicate and people aren't aware of that so we usually got upset. that is what i think.

Sue · Posted: Tue Oct 11, 2005 1:40 pm Post subject:

id say that i could spot someone i would avoid if i spent enough time with them. you cant judge someone after knowing them for a short while unless its common manners or something but their day might have been bad. anything could have happened. you dont know anything about that person and people change very quickly.

i look out for basic manners if im out. their body language, their awareness of everyone and their willingness to help anyone who may need it. thats not as important but i will always notice when people take it apon themselves to help someone out.

i dont like show off's. i avoid horney men and women that love shopping more then their friends. gggrrrrr Mad

ColdAsIce · Posted: Tue Oct 11, 2005 2:02 pm Post subject:

Oh yes I am definitely that!!!.....Infact I'd say that was a stronge quality of mine.... Cool

Probably the only one though.... Laughing

legin · Newbie User Joined: Jul 18, 2005 Posts: 25

magda74 · Intermediate User Joined: Sep 25, 2005 Posts: 129

I used to be. I find that now I'm hyper-sensitive and assume that I'm probably not giving someone the benefit of the doubt, so I tend to 2nd guess myself alot.
Basic manners are always good and I like people with an attitude of 'this is me', no games, no mind-reading.