Joined: Nov 05, 2004 Posts: 112 Location: New Zealand
Posted: Fri Oct 14, 2005 11:20 am Post subject:
Angie_05 wrote:
I think that if he really liked me or cared that he woulda sucked it up and talked to me. I refused to let him get me down, so I started dating someone else.
Not always so, as happened to me. A girl i really liked had a friend who told me she also liked me a whole lot.
She had just come out of a relationship so i told myself yeah i'll give it sometime and then ask ... yeah sure like that happened Still makes me feel crap today.
So in that respect zana, getting it out in the open is probably a good tactic. But if he really does have a GF this does stick you dead in the middle of a potential triangle. Put it this way if you say something to him, someone will probably get hurt - if you dont, you will definitely get hurt.
Its a tricky situation either way you look at it i guess, best of luck whatever you decide to do
If you do tell him and he does have a GF it doesnt mean that things do have to change, people can still operate as friends - its just not easy.
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