never been in love

chav · Posted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 2:11 pm Post subject: never been in love

i really want to fall in love with someone, because i wont feel so lonely as i do right now, ive had a few bf's but none of them were serious but i want a serious relationship even though im only 13. i dont want a fling i want love Crying or Very sad

please tell me someone can relate to this

Remus · Posted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 2:25 pm Post subject:

Thas me in a nutshell and I've always been that way, I dont do the "fling thing", always want something longterm

freinds have said I'm boring but thats just me I guess

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chav · Posted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 2:41 pm Post subject:

ive had lots of flings on the internet, only online coz of sp. ive had so many flings i feel like a tart.

sad_kat · Posted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 2:54 pm Post subject: hi

i am the same as u chav. i really wish i had a serious boyfriend so i wouldnt be so lonely, like someone to understand me for who i am. im 17 and i dont think i will ever get one ever! its so unfair my friends have bf's but i dont Sad

i wish i cud be in love

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Remus · Posted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 3:29 pm Post subject:

Remus · Posted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 4:28 pm Post subject:

masking is ok to a point but then we avoid (yes.... avoidance) who we really are, issues cant be solved when wearing masks, you have to find your true self and get better as that person, this is no mean feat and the hardest thing for any of us to do, I'm nowhere near 100% but have come along way from where I used to be, I've been honest about myself to my freinds too, that I think helped, even though it takes along time for them to get it after explaining so much, I think once we talk about it and are accepted, then thats one of the first steps to being abit more "normal"

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Remus · Posted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 5:28 pm Post subject:

thoughtless · Posted: Sat Nov 19, 2005 6:20 am Post subject:

I know what you mean, Remus. Being in a relationship won't make your SA any better and it can actually make it worse in some aspects (as in having an extra concern about how you look, how you can be embarassing your 'better half', etc).

And damn, saying that you're boring is a cruel thing to say to a friend.

abc1234 · Posted: Sat Nov 19, 2005 6:44 am Post subject:

chav and all other boys and girls dont go out looking for love maybe love is suposed to find us some how atleast that what keeps me going just telling my self that and i think i may have kinda been found so everyone hold ur heads high and be proud of who you are do not live and regret take all the oppertuinties that life throws at you never feel asamed of the way god has made u cause i the people in this place r the nicest people every just reading though the post iv realized that here in theirs forums their enough love to go around the who world