First Kiss

student1 · Newbie User Joined: Nov 27, 2005 Posts: 2

Hi my friends,

I'm 24 and my first kiss was when I had 22. The kiss wasn't because my approach, but the girl.

The weird thing is that when she kissed me, I DIDN'T KNOW HOW TO MOVE MY LIBS, i didn't know how to kiss her. I was very embarassed, I begin blushing and sweeting, get very nervous, and I tried to find the best excuse possible at that moment. I told her: "I can't do it. I have a very serious relationship with a girl and I love her very much. I don't want to hurt her". Rolling Eyes

It's the problem with SP: it makes us like children without social experience regardless of the age.

At 24, I don't know how to kiss, and I'm afraid that I'll disappoint the next girl who wants to kiss me (I don't have the courage to begin or maintain the "kissing action")

I'd like to know your "first kiss experience" and if you think you have learned how to kiss. Are you afraid of kiss a women?

Horatio · Posted: Tue Nov 29, 2005 12:15 pm Post subject:

well it wasnt really a kiss but it was supposed to be

age 17 and on a theatre stage in front of the entire cast and crew of a theatrical production during a rehearsal... script said to lean in and kiss girl

when told by the director to kiss her I just blushed and admitted I didnt know how, much to the amusement of everybody present who thought it was hilarious that a 17 year old had never kissed a girl

I managed to persuade the director to rewrite that part of the script to make it a "nearly kiss"

Im 23 and thats the closest I ever have got and probably ever will get to a kiss

renegade · Advanced User Joined: Oct 26, 2005 Posts: 338

Skyla · Posted: Wed Nov 30, 2005 6:30 pm Post subject:

justsomebloke25 · Newbie User Joined: Nov 06, 2005 Posts: 38

Angie_05 · Posted: Wed Nov 30, 2005 10:01 pm Post subject:

I had my first kiss a very long time ago and I was so scared. I just followed what he did and I caught onto how to do it within seconds. It's not that difficult. There isn't a real way to kiss.

I've had MANY kisses since then and each first kiss with a new guy is like my very first kiss. Every person kisses different and if you go a long time without it, you will kinda forget. That means the other person has probably forgotten too.

Allow yourself to be nervous over it. That's all the fun of it; its exciting. Kissing would be so boring if I thought I knew exactly how it was going to go.

maggie · Posted: Wed Nov 30, 2005 11:18 pm Post subject:

hi Student1....i don't know about everyone else..but, for me..i would rather be with a man who was inexperienced...and willing to learn with me....than to be with someone who slept with every woman who was in his path of possibility....no matter what age...and as far as the kissing thing goes..it's whatever feels nice Wink

student1 · Newbie User Joined: Nov 27, 2005 Posts: 2

4myself · Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2005 2:30 am Post subject:

Awww, this is such a sweet subject! Wink

Seriously, if a girl really likes you then shes not going to care too much, anyway most first kisses are pretty awkward, as its been pointed out everyone kisses differently so it takes a bit of time to get to find whats comfortable for you and your partner. Anyway, if a girls going to laugh at you, do you really want to date her?. Heres to lots of sweet kisses and romantic times!.

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Too_Shy · Posted: Sun Dec 04, 2005 1:49 pm Post subject:

Student1, I know exactly how you feel.

LIke you I am 24 and I didn't have my first kiss until I was 21. I suppose its an event that most poeple would look back on with fondness however usually when I think about it I get somewhat depressed.

It all transpired one night at a pub after a girl that approached my friend and I and started to have a converstaion with us. She was sitting next to me and after a while she began to rub my leg with her foot and she also touched my hands on several occasions. I ever so slowly began to realise that she was interested in me but due to my social anxiety problem I was too scared to flirt back.

After a while my friend went to the toilet and while he was gone the girl looked at me for a moment then lent over and kissed me (which was good because there was no way that I could have made such a move). Unfortunately, at this stage my hands were shaking and I really wasn't sure what sort of movements I should be making with my tongue. She commented on the fact that my hands were shaking but I simply denied it and changed the subject.

We kissed each other for a little while longer, or rather she kissed me, and we then exchanged phone numbers. She asked me whether I wanted to go back to her place for the evening however I lied by claiming that I was too drunk and needed some sleep. During the following week she called me and we spoke for a while but unfortuntely my social anxiety problem affected me even while I was on the phone. Unfortunately, I couldn't really think of anything to say to her.

After that phone call I simply didn't answer her calls. I think the main reason that I chose not to answer her calls was that if I ended up in a relationship with her she would find out that I am overly shy and terribly inxperienced. So when I reflect on my first kiss it only makes me sad as it reminds me of a lost opportunity and solidifies my anxiety. And sadly the more time that passes the more anxious I feel.