Posted: Mon Oct 04, 2004 10:17 pm Post subject: cant cope
anyone ever feel so frustrated and that they cant cope with life anymore. im sitting here getting in a state bout going to work 2mo, iv worked there for 4 bloody years and am close to everyone! why am i so scare all the time. and here comes the oh so original line... no one understands me! my mum tells me to get a grip, how supportive!!!!
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Posted: Tue Oct 05, 2004 2:45 am Post subject:
Since I tend to avoid life as best I can, coping with it isn't so bad anymore.
It is strange how all phobias except social phobia are cured through consistent exposure to its cause. Yet I'm still scared of going to the same supermarket for 5 years.
Don't be too hard on your Mother, she is giving you any different advice that a lot of professionals give! They simply can't understand what it's like. My Mother simply ignores it all togther-- changes the subject and prentends that it doesn't exsist. Talk about frustration. But then, maybe I should cop her attitude, try pretending it just doesn't exist. Sometimes I can do that, but it's not always possible.
There should be a *thinking of dying* board here.By what i have read,on many posts.Sick minds,lonely minds,empty minds....Gees.THE PITS?the lowest a sick mind,can get....Maybe we are all at it.But there's a bottom,there has to be.
do ya know what I always think...what if i were to die...then suddenly theres a cure or a way to overcome the sp...wouldnt that be a bitch. Anyways, I'm not the suicidal type, I'm too stubborn to give up. So please, dont give up, once ya hit rock bottom theres only one way out and thats up
Joined: Oct 12, 2003 Posts: 25 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: Fri Oct 08, 2004 7:11 pm Post subject:
Yep, as Tyler Durden says "it's only when we've lost everything that we're free to do anything".
Been there with the suicide, nearly died, didn't, and 3 years later ... now I like my life.
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Joined: Jul 19, 2005 Posts: 19 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 7:25 am Post subject:
i often wondered if anyone has actually taken there own life because of s/a! i have thought about it a few times, but like u say..."im 2 stuburn" i care 2 much 4 my family & friends & i do strongly believe that life is great & im destined 4 better times!
plus... despite all these brain numbing issues, i still find life extremely enjoyable!
can i just say 2 anyone who is thinkin life isnt worth living....
U R NOT ALONE, but things can only get better, life is a precious thing & nomatter how many problems enter your complex mind, they can allways b fixed!
NO problem is unsolvable!
1.THE PAST IS HISTORY......
2.THE FUTURE IS A MYSTERY.....
3.TODAY IS A GIFT THATS WHY ITS CALLED THE PRESENT
Joined: Aug 04, 2005 Posts: 104 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: Mon Aug 08, 2005 11:22 am Post subject: Re: cant cope
hann wrote:
anyone ever feel so frustrated and that they cant cope with life anymore. im sitting here getting in a state bout going to work 2mo, iv worked there for 4 bloody years and am close to everyone! why am i so scare all the time. and here comes the oh so original line... no one understands me! my mum tells me to get a grip, how supportive!!!!
xx
You should try and get some supportive help from somewhere if your mother cant provide it, its good that you come on line and talk to others about your problems, I say let it all out
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