Joined: Oct 08, 2004 Posts: 283 Location: Australia
Posted: Sat Oct 16, 2004 7:46 am Post subject:
I don't have an interest in social situations and for the most part, people. Yet I don't mind the company of people I know to ease the boredom. Yet I can only tolerate it for an hour or so before I've got to go do something else. Ha! I think I've got adult ADD.
Honestly, I'm afraid to say that I do not believe in you at all. If you do not seek social contact, then what are you doing hanging out here? It seems like you do find pleasure in talking to others.
I've also seen you commenting somewhere else that you believe you're not a good looking woman. Though I've never seen you, I would point out that people with social phobia are prone to believe in this, even when it's far from true. I used to employ it as an excuse for being unable to approach women - until it became clear that the problem lied not in my "looks", but in the fact that I would run away from the girls. Which is way harder to deal with.
I hang out here my dear friend as I can switch you all off when the need arises...lol. I've been a loner all my life, even before my SP. I'm happy doing my own thing and the thing about my appearence is actually BDD( which I got from years of bullying), which i might add isn't that bad any more, thankfully. Its amazing how things change when you get older...and wiser.
Another reason i come here is to give others a chance to talk to someone who knows what its like to go through the same thing they are going through. My public service you might say. I dont think people need to be told to buck up or told to do this that and the other, most people here it seems just need to get stuff off thier chests, things that no one else would understand. They just want to make sure they are not alone.
So, wether you like or dislike what I write is totally irrelevent. Its good that you can speak up and i do enjoy reading others opionions on things I write, good or bad. So, carry on writing and peace be with you
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