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lifesnotfair
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 04, 2004 1:32 am    Post subject: always getting rejected by women Reply with quote

How come i seem to get rejected by womem.. why am i like a total reject with women. I have tried to meet women online, i get rejected, i try to meet them in clubs, i get rejected.. its not fucking fair.. how come you females reject me all the time? i am a shy guy, thanks a lot.. I am trying my best and you basically just keep rejecting me. all you females are putting me to a slow painful death because all the time you have rejeced me..

well fuck that... and fuck all you that have rejected me, and are going to continue to reject me...

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 04, 2004 3:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Haven't we already answered this? Take a look at yourself and your attitude. What is the bloody hurry?

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 04, 2004 3:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My hurry?? nobody has addressed this.... wtf???

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 04, 2004 4:18 am    Post subject: oh women Reply with quote

dont ask them, a smile..., and thats all u need.
u'll feel this, if u dont u better dont act. once u feel u could act. just act.

love is a choice u made from time to time ( not sure, but i like the quote )

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 04, 2004 5:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Or was that another person sounding similar?

Oh well. What I've said still stands.

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 04, 2004 7:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

forget about if your not confident and good looking then women wont want you. it doesnt matter how sweet and caring you are, if your an ugly socialphobic then girls dont want anything to do with you

<-- 22 never dated, always rejected, doesnt even bother trying anymore

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 04, 2004 9:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Geez....I wonder why?

"all you females are putting me to a slow painful death because all the time you have rejeced me.."

Have you thought that if anyone did go out with you, you would be putting them them to a slow painful death because of your negative attitude.

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 04, 2004 10:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

annie wrote:
Geez....I wonder why?

"all you females are putting me to a slow painful death because all the time you have rejeced me.."

Have you thought that if anyone did go out with you, you would be putting them them to a slow painful death because of your negative attitude.

annie


yeah girls are much happier rejecting a guy with depression/socialphobia and dating a jerk who will call them a bitch behind their back and treat them like a sex toy until they find a nicer newer sex toy to play with instead.

What girls say they want and what girls really want are two different things. Quiet guys with low confidence but good hearts are considered unnatractive by girls and arrogant assholes are very attractive.

Just like the school days... were the girls going for the bullying victims or for the bullys? The bullies were always much more attractive

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 04, 2004 11:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well Horatio

lets say lifesnotfair was a woman and constantly used the F word and kept feeling sorry for themselves, would you want to go out with 'her'? I don't think so.

You are generalising when you are saying:

"yeah girls are much happier rejecting a guy with depression/socialphobia and dating a jerk who will call them a bitch behind their back and treat them like a sex toy until they find a nicer newer sex toy to play with instead.":

Hey I have dated shy guys or depressed guys, so don't put me in that category and I admit I have dated jerks as well.
I don't care if a guy is good looking, has social phobia or is ugly, as long as they have a good heart, are trustworthy, supportive and compassionate.

I certainly don't like arrogant assholes or see them attractive and believe me I have told a few a thing or two.
And as for girls get what they want - as if boys don't, it works both ways.

I was bullied at school like most kids and I got over it. I just gave back a thing or two to the bullies.

Cheers
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 04, 2004 2:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

let me make something clear, i am not feeling sorry for myself. I am telling you the truth.. It doesn't matter what i do, girls seem to be turned off by me, no matter how i look, how i feel, and how i present myself. And for me using the "F word" i am tired of how all this rejection. Maybe you haven't been rejected (or as much as i have) so maybe you don't understand how i feel, which is the only reason why i am being so leaniant, however, how can anyone judge me when you haven't lived my life..

So what am i suppose to do??? my attitude will not change until some girl will give me the chance, however i think we all know the chances of that are.

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