--either shy or outgoing is fine by me, as long as she's not overbearing or has a too-strong personality
--intelligence, wit, opinions
--enjoys going beyond small talk when comfortable with the person she's with
--appreciates my odd sense of humor and my collection of dubiously useful information
--I prefer size 16 over size 6 though I find all types of gilrs attractive. Physical appearance is certainly not the most important, but I have to have some level of attraction to the person.
Joined: Sep 30, 2004 Posts: 758 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: Mon Oct 18, 2004 6:29 pm Post subject:
I think it's the latter. Personally I wouldn't mind hearing from girls about guys or any preference anyone has whatever gender etc. Not my thread though !
Joined: Sep 30, 2004 Posts: 758 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: Mon Oct 18, 2004 9:09 pm Post subject:
Glad that's cleared up then!
I don't really have that many preferences. I like shy and gentle woman but I also like strong willed woman as well. I know what you mean about them appearing less frightening but I love the way Deborah Harry (in her prime) had a look in her eye which said I'll eat you up and spit you out little man.
Joined: Mar 13, 2004 Posts: 44 Location: United States of America
Posted: Tue Oct 19, 2004 12:06 am Post subject:
I'm attracted to girls who seem innocent and like to please people. The last two girls I wanted to go out with were like that. They made me feel like they cared about me and it felt good. I know it's unrealistic to believe anyone's innocent, but I don't want to date anyone who's meanspirited or girls who are wild and like to party a lot. Physically I'm attracted to women who have a good smile and pretty eyes. My head is turned more by women with large breasts and butt than by skinny model looking women. I'm never attracted to women who don't seem to like me even if they are physically very hot.
Joined: Nov 05, 2004 Posts: 112 Location: New Zealand
Posted: Fri Nov 05, 2004 1:58 pm Post subject:
I'm pretty much in the same boat as Flax, the last girl I wanted to go out with was like that.
The one before was completely different, very foward and I actually thought that maybe I could go through with it since they liked me and were rather open about the fact. The fact that she was also very open towards a mate later that week was rather crushing, which made me even more wary of asking someone out.
I think i'll stick to liking the quiet ones, i'll ask one out one day I know I will.
I'm so glad that other people have similar anxiety surrounding these kinds of things, and that its not just in my head, or i'm just not as man as other people etc.
P.S. this is my first post, only found this place after being diagnosed a week ago
As cheesy as it sounds I prefer a woman who is strong and open minded yet still has a good heart. As far as initial attraction, I am attracted to pretty faces and nice attitudes. Bonuses, but not requisites, are women who are intellegent and somewhat independent and philosophical thinkers.
A woman who is genuinely nice, not a woman who feels that she has to be that way, is a relief. Yes, yes a woman who speaks her mind is great- why wouldn't I want to know what my partner feels and thinks. But, it is also great if a woman is speaking her mind to make a clear point and not simply to degrade me in order to make a point... noodles are not required though.
Sorry to butt in...again, but I thought men didnt like a woman who spoke her mind. I always speak my mind no matter what and it seemed to scare people. I am very open and honest about all topics and expect the same from a partner.
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though I find all types of gilrs attractive. Physical appearance is certainly not the most important, but I have to have some level of attraction to the person.
