I sense a guy likes me and it is the worst

brightxstar · Newbie User Joined: Mar 23, 2006 Posts: 88 Location: U.S.

I feel like a guy in one of my classes likes me and I panic more because of SA. I'm not 100% sure he likes me but somethings make me think he does.

Firstly- At lunch, I was sitting down at a table and I was looking around. I spottted a kid pointing at me a couple of tables away, talking to the guy next to him named Mohamad. I tried reading his lips and I think he said "her?" So, I quickly looked away and nothing happened. (of course i had become more anxious at that moment)

Secondly - Mohamad is in my Algebra 1 class and we had to do a group game. The group that won, had to go around the room and help others. My group won a round and I had to walk around to help other students with how to do problems. Mohamad yelled out "(my name) help me!!" I did not want to go at all!!! I was so scared.. (I don't like the guy and I never really had the experience of a guy liking me) So i went to try to help him and he kept saying "i don't get it though, I still don't get it Shouldn't it be that?... etc." I felt like he was stalling so I could just be next to him and he was looking at me the whole time. I just wanted to run away and get out of there.

Thirdly - In Algebra class, I saw him looking at me once. Because I never really looked to see if he was looking..I only tried once and he was actually looking.

Fourth - I feel anxious to walk when he's near the area because I know he will look at me. (you know regular looking and the way guys look at girls..)

I wish I never had these situations in where I keep thinking he likes me. I like someone else and I don't want to be mean or anything acting like i know that mohamad likes me. All I want is to try to talk to the guy I like more and for us to be friends. I'm afraid to have a boyfriend since I've never had one.

(i know i know, long topic Smile

) Any ideas on what I should do? It's hard for me to act normally around him..I just want to hide so he won't look at me.

Hookstra · Newbie User Joined: Oct 21, 2005 Posts: 15

Try to pretend he doesn't exist. When I like a girl I never make eye contact with her.

I notice that girls who like me look at me when I'm looking away, so never look at him.

shipost · Posted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 5:54 am Post subject:

I used to get the same thing when I used to go school, girls would sit at the back of the class and saying my name and laughing and stuff. felt horrible until a few weeks later her friend said her friend fancys me then i knew it wernt a bad thing apart from me not fancying her lol. then when everyone knows some ugly lookin girl fancys you and it gets round the school you are the latest gossip Embarassed

newshyguy · Intermediate User Joined: Feb 04, 2006 Posts: 112

coming from a guy, to guys girls come and go, so if he likes you and you or him dont try to talk to each other, i dont think there would be a future, because he could soon make an assumption of you as being too shy, and then he will forget you and look for for another girl.

yea thats coming from experience, right here from a shy guy,

newshyguy · Intermediate User Joined: Feb 04, 2006 Posts: 112

ok actually i gotta a little advice, if a girl like me and i liked the girl, back in hs, i would try to be as active talking as i could be near her, and give her as many opporunities for her to say something to me, we dont have to talk , you could just say something to him , and see what he responds, Its like a game , you play like you dont really like him but you really do because you dont waste any opportunities he gives you to speak

ps: if he likes you and you dont like him , then i think you would find him annoying but just ignored him, because its not your fault you dont like him. but since you never had a boyfriend and your young, you might not know what you want.

brightxstar · Newbie User Joined: Mar 23, 2006 Posts: 88 Location: U.S.

Well, I don't like him at all. It just bothers me to see him staring at me. Today, he moved to a different table in lunch i guess so see me better. That was when I really noticed he was looking. I also noticed he was looking when I was walking in algebra class. I try not to look or care, but whenever algebra and lunch come, I keep getting paranoid. I just want to somehow forget that I think he likes me. I mean he could really not like me.. can't he? But all the things I've noticed keeps making me think he does. I don't want him to.

newshyguy · Intermediate User Joined: Feb 04, 2006 Posts: 112

i believe you just have to ignore him, and avoid him as much as possible to get him outta ur head, like if he is looking at you then seat somewhere where he cant see you. if you see him in your class then be like "oh there comes that dumb boy who likes me" thats pretty much what worked for me .

if he doesnt like you then maybe i think u gotta talk to him to see what's up, but it sounds like he likes you, i think staring is one of the easiest signs that tells someone is attractive to you.

Packer · Newbie User Joined: May 05, 2006 Posts: 1

Sorry, but I don't see where the problem is. I mean, if he likes you and you don't like him, then he really has got a problem. But you, how can being appreciated by someone be a problem?

Although I hate people staring at me, I would like to see a girl looking at me as if he loved me, even if I didn't like her. I would feel very anxious in that situation, but I would see the whole matter as a positive thing. Unfortunately, that will never happen.

Sorry for my lack of empathy and my poor English.

scyth · Posted: Fri May 05, 2006 11:20 pm Post subject:

Next time your having lunch and hes a few tables away from you bring a grapefuit with you and chuck it as hard as u can at his head when hes looking im sure he'll get the message.

TAKE it as a compliment thou and remember you always have the grapefruit method if all else fails Very Happy

brightxstar · Newbie User Joined: Mar 23, 2006 Posts: 88 Location: U.S.