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Falling
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PostPosted: Fri May 05, 2006 11:52 am    Post subject: The Real person behind your mask Reply with quote

well we all look shy and quite persons, sometimes some of us look and act weird, we say nothing, we dont have things to talk about... maybe lack of ineterests.... but we act this way with people whom we feel uncomfortable with, who we are afraid of what they thing of us etc...

but with people who you can be you... the real you, how do you act? i mean... how are you in real?

myself, i'm a funny guy, i make people laugh, i'm a big teaser, so calm and relaxed, and sometimes hyper when i'm in a very good mood. i show the pride i have for being a very handsome guy... even if some people doesnt see that something special in me... i see it, esxetrnally and internaly, i just love myself when im with people i'm comfortable with.

how about you?

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PostPosted: Fri May 05, 2006 12:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm quite similar but underneath I'm terribly insecure and vulnerable


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PostPosted: Fri May 05, 2006 4:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm a different person depending on who I'm with.. I'm a weak personality. So weak that I don't have a personality at all. I adjust all the time to fit in with people.

I have no idea who I really am.

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longlivesolitude
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PostPosted: Fri May 05, 2006 6:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am also kind of funny and laughs etc. when I feel comfortable. Hm I just think my having-fun-gene have a bit hard time showing itself because it's become rusty.

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PostPosted: Fri May 05, 2006 8:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't know but when I am typsy I talk way to much and go crazy, not sure if thats me or not Laughing I got this as I was growing up so not sure if I have changed since I was younger or if its SA thats changed me but either way I have no idea who I am Rolling Eyes

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PostPosted: Sun May 07, 2006 6:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There really is only one person that I have been able to open up to completely and has seen the real me... that's my ex boyfriend. I was in love with him from freshmen year in highschool to the end of senior year in highschool. we dated that whole time.

but yea, I felt so comfortable around him he "briefly" cured my Eating Disorder... I didnt care about anything when I was with him.

I"m really funny and sarcastic, I'm sexy and I'm smart because I can actually state my opinion without people thinking I am nuts.

Even my close friends now.... people that I've been hanging out with for about a year and half at least... haven't really seen the real me. They've seen tiny "moments" of me that never last. They get a sneak preview.... if I'm lucky, and strangers.... they see nothing.

Especially at parties... i sit in a corner. It's silly because everyone tells me I'm beautiful. My best friend's boyfriend whom I rarely talk to even sent me a text after this party I went to lastnight saying "By far you were the best looking girl there"... so I mean, I know people aren't lying to me. I have a lot of friends. WHY? I don't know. I never talk.

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PostPosted: Sun May 07, 2006 1:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I never felt comfortable enough with anyone to show my try self. Crying or Very sad

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PostPosted: Sun May 07, 2006 2:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well I guess I can show my true self ONLY when i'm completley drunk and there SP free Cool

Otherwise.... Confused


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PostPosted: Tue May 09, 2006 10:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

well if i wasnt shy i would be this fun flirty girl who has fun and talks to evrybody
but i only act like dat if im wit my friends and the ppl im comfortable wit
and i especially hate walking in front of ppl like across the room wit a full room of ppl dat sux

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PostPosted: Thu May 11, 2006 12:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

im a bright bubbly happy hyper carefree girl who loves life and a laugh! i love bein the joker and carryin on and makin the world smile with me! i love to b loved and to show love. i am affectionate and touchy feely. i am romantic and sentimental. i am needy and vulnerable and need to b looked after. i am sensitive and caring and warm and giving. i am friendly and sociable and love to b with people. i like to have attention and to b doted upon.

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