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lil_chika26
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PostPosted: Tue May 09, 2006 10:44 pm    Post subject: solution Reply with quote

ok well i have all these problems like i can't talk to people, i have poor self-image , i curse like a sailor, and all dis other stuff....
but since i have a wonderful best- friend she is helpin me be a good person dat i really am inside havin positive ppl round is a factor too, remember u have to love yourself first before someone can love u back

i would suggest u tell ur 1 good friend ur problems it helped me out a lot and it got us a lot closer i hope i helped 2 some of u

really try it, ppl care bout u


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PostPosted: Thu May 11, 2006 10:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

so true!!

when you surround your self with real friends and people who likes you, your self esteem sparks so high!

in summer i made 3 months alone, then in autumn i started hanging out, and surrounded myself with people who likes me... and with their compliments really made me love myself, i stopped being jelause and stopped feeling inferiority complex.

they make you feel the pride in evrything you do and in anything you are. life took a different meaning when they came into my life.

they showed me the internal beauty i possess inside of me.

last winter i couldnt even look at the mirror... i hated myself for not being good looking, and for not looking gorgeous like someone. they taught me what a gorgeous guy i am. i used to walk in street and if i see someone looking i would begin yelling to myself "oh god! what do i have wrong?" now i really dont care if they look at me or not, and when i care i say that they are looking at me cuz i have a face to look twice at!

my self esteem sparked lol Smile

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PostPosted: Thu May 11, 2006 11:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Not all of us are blessed with good friends but good on ya's for giving it a go. There is definitely a lot of good people out there, who are in the business of giving and helping.

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Falling
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PostPosted: Thu May 11, 2006 10:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

jamez wrote:
Not all of us are blessed with good friends but good on ya's for giving it a go. There is definitely a lot of good people out there, who are in the business of giving and helping.


true love won't fall from the sky... you have to work for it. also no one is perfect, i've been hurt by those who love me, and i still love them, cuz after all we are all human being.. none of us is perfect.

i have this friend who would say everything she knows with everyone, including my secrets... also i felt like she used me to make her date my friend. i didnt choose to end up the relation ship... she wasnt doing any bad to me... ok i didnt told her secrets anymore, but i kept our fried ship go on.... because she made me feel special, appreciating myself, she is still in the relationship withy my friend... and she wtill makes me feel special, i only end up the friend ship if i suspect that they are trying to make me some bad things.

i passed from a time i wasnt calculated by no one.... cuz their interests was absoltuley not mine... and when came some people who i had common things with, life really changed and for the first time i was being valued. so when you try to make friends... search them by your inetersts.

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