Why do you think people cheat? And...

jinxed · Intermediate User Joined: Mar 18, 2006 Posts: 298

What I've come up w/ is,

1- they're insecure so they do it first,

2- they can't be loyal and stay w/ one and have the urge to try different people at one time whether it's sex, or it's only being w/ various ppl but they still want a back-up who they know will always be loyal so they'll never be alone even if they didn't ever truly like them or thought it was good enough out of greed and shallowness,

3- they are confused at the moment b/t all that come up at one timing but will decide later as they like them all,

4- they like too much attention and it's not that they like any of them back.

Any other ideas? And which one do you view as most common one/s, and why you chose that answer.

JCR · Newbie User Joined: May 15, 2006 Posts: 15

nice work jinxed! i thik that you hit the nail on the head with ya number 2 description ay.

JCR · Newbie User Joined: May 15, 2006 Posts: 15

nice work jinxed! i think u hit the nail on the head with description number two. its the urge to try diffrent ppl without staying loyal & wanting to to hav a backup, so as not to be alone.

Septor · Elite User Joined: Dec 15, 2005 Posts: 1033

All of the above.There a lot of reason why people cheat.You have came with a lot of them Jinxed.I think the 2 main reason are some people are just asses and some people rush into a relationship with out thinking about it and then they can't figure a way out.

Remus · Posted: Mon May 22, 2006 5:18 pm Post subject:

from men I have been freinds with over the years, they tend to like the "getting away with it" and find that exciting

thank god I dont have freinds like that anymore

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renegade · Advanced User Joined: Oct 26, 2005 Posts: 338

People cheat because they CAN.

Because they are not satisfied with only their partner and want more and more. Because they don't have SP and don't fuc*ing care if X or Y leaves them cause they can go very easily to Z and so on.

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Septor · Elite User Joined: Dec 15, 2005 Posts: 1033

Sometime it's really simply.People are just jerks. Evil or Very Mad

black_mamba · Posted: Sat May 27, 2006 8:11 am Post subject:

It's simple: SEX.

Laughing

Septor · Elite User Joined: Dec 15, 2005 Posts: 1033

boodizm · Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 2:57 am Post subject:

Life in the modern age is full of choice and change and a person can change job, buy a new car, house or live in another country and so on, almost overnight, but when it comes to relationships they have trouble seeing that this is something for forever.
It's plain selfishness, they think about their short-term pleasure over their former partners long-term anguish.