Cant talk to girls !!

imencoded128bit · Newbie User Joined: Jun 17, 2006 Posts: 7

Hi , my first post here, i am so shy that i cant talk to girls, talking is far fetched, i cant face them !!
I can not talk to boys also many times
I cant go to gym, i feel very shy there, i try to go at 5 in morning when there is no one.
I have never had any girlfriends and i am 18 years old boy !!!!!!
I feel very self conscious n really this thing is taking over me now !!!!

Can any one help , i m depressed.

Though i am good looking, the only thing is that i got a little extra flab in my tummy but thats it.

And i am also an artist, i play piano.

I have just finished schooling, i used to have assembly everyday and i used to go for on-stage activities very often. I am not stage shy though... Sad

Johnny09 · Newbie User Joined: Jun 20, 2006 Posts: 3

Im 16 and i never had a girlfriend either and I hate my life so you aint the only one!!

imencoded128bit · Newbie User Joined: Jun 17, 2006 Posts: 7

Man !
From all the talk , my problem hasnt been solved still ,ok got it that i m not alone but we cant stay this way for ever na ?
We got ta do something...

Septor · Elite User Joined: Dec 15, 2005 Posts: 1033

Imencoded128bit don't worry about it your still pretty young.Your only 18.You still have lot of time.The only thing I can say is.I would forget about a girlfriend right now and just work making some friends that are girls.Don't view every girl as a girlfriend.It more important now to just get use to interacting with women.It won't be easy but you have to start some where.

But that just my opinion. Very Happy

imencoded128bit · Newbie User Joined: Jun 17, 2006 Posts: 7

Now thats what i call an advie, well thank u septor.......

imencoded128bit · Newbie User Joined: Jun 17, 2006 Posts: 7

Now thats what i call an advice, well thank u septor.......

LittleMissScareAll · Expert User Joined: Jun 15, 2005 Posts: 716 Location: Hell

I never had a boyfriend until I was 18...I met him online. And since then the only way I can meet people is through the internet...if not for the internet I would never/would have never been in a relationship at all. So maybe if you really really want a girlfriend...try some dating sites(or myspace, even)? Some people dont like the idea of them, or meeting people online but I dont see it as any different than meeting any other way...it's just alot easier because of course it's easier to type to a stranger than talk to them, then when you feel comfortable enough with them you could meet.

imencoded128bit · Newbie User Joined: Jun 17, 2006 Posts: 7

sweetsalwa · Newbie User Joined: May 23, 2006 Posts: 12

kattness · Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 12:47 am Post subject:

hey im 18 to..... only a girl who finds it hard to talk to girls. they are a scary thing i know!
though we are still young....
i found that going for the also shy people in easier (clearly!)

small steps dude.... you said ur not stage scared - why not try acting when it comes to meeting people, beome someone else.
my therapist told me that anothy hopkins used to do that at partys cos he was s/a and hated for being an alcoholic for awhile,worked for him!

random celeb fact for you there my friend, good luck!

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