Cant talk to girls !!

Falling · Newbie User Joined: Jul 24, 2005 Posts: 92

well i avoided relationships for a year... when you got to meet people you like, they would like to get to know you and your life.. i was ashamed of my life, wasnt interesting at all... and wouldnt attract someone...

my advice to you is to try and build friendships... start learning how you talk to girls etc... and when you get interest in someone.. approuch her.

but if you are uncomfortable with a particular thing in your life, make your best to change it and improve it so people will get more attracted in you... for example, make your best to look good, improve your personality, make your life more interesting...

when you'll be satisfied with yourself and with your life... it will be easy getting girl friends and friends.

Wink

Falling · Newbie User Joined: Jul 24, 2005 Posts: 92

well i avoided relationships for a year... when you got to meet people you like, they would like to get to know you and your life.. i was ashamed of my life, wasnt interesting at all... and wouldnt attract someone...

my advice to you is to try and build friendships... start learning how you talk to girls etc... and when you get interest in someone.. approuch her.

but if you are uncomfortable with a particular thing in your life, make your best to change it and improve it so people will get more attracted in you... for example, make your best to look good, improve your personality, make your life more interesting...

when you'll be satisfied with yourself and with your life... it will be easy getting girl friends and friends.

Wink

Vincent · Posted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 11:53 am Post subject:

my advice:

BUST YOUR CHERRY.

after u become a man that way, its less fearful.

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Danska · Posted: Tue Aug 01, 2006 9:49 pm Post subject:

i'm 18 never had a girl friend or been kissed i can't even look people in the eye even people on net don't wanna chat i'm completly alone in my room every day after work can't even talk to my friends i have no idea what to do anymore except sink into booze. my moms moving away so i will have to get a flat which will be fun i just don't wanna be lonely anymore but the way it's goin i think i'll probably swing.

jayo · Posted: Tue Aug 01, 2006 10:18 pm Post subject:

Hi Danska

Where are you from - I can't make it out from that location!

Youre still so young - I'm 33 and battling with all of this.

My brothers and sister are all married with kids but I'm not - yet!!

My advice is to begin to build a life through sports, hobbies and courses.

Immerse yourself in these things taking credit for all steps.

This will allow you to validate yourself and build self-esteem.

Trust me - it works - and I know one day I will have a girl and little ones!

Jayo

Danska · Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2006 8:09 pm Post subject:

Thanks for advice jayo
i'm from northwest england it's only most times all i have to drive my life is music and work but without a women or even friends i feel like a nobody. can't do anythink alone

islandbluenose · Newbie User Joined: Jul 17, 2006 Posts: 4

i was told by a few people at work that a girl there liked me Wink

. she is very very pretty and she has always been nice to me and we have a laugh. I never had the guts though to ask her out- she is now back with her ex-boyfriend and i'm gutted Crying or Very sad

. wish i had the confidence to have asked her out for a drink or something- but i don't and i didn't. Sad