i like him so much./...

nerdgirl178 · Posted: Fri Dec 10, 2004 10:37 pm Post subject: i like him so much./...

Hello I am new here. I work with this guy (different departments but same company) for some months now (since June of this year), and I really like him. I think he knows I like him because he smiles at me and looks at me from the corner of his eye. I don't think he likes me though. I have SP and I really hate it of course like all of you here, it keeps me from doing the things I want to do. I just want to go up and start a conversation. He has helped me at work, say hello etcera, but nothing much. I smile nervously when I see him and I am afraid that is a turn off for a guy if I actually start talking to him because I may blush and start sweating and stuff. He is so very handsome, and tall (just the way I like them), and I am, well my nick says it all, lol, I wear glasses, I like to read history books and stuff, and he is seriously a stud, no joke! He has a great personality. I know plenty of people on this board could relate to me. What should I do? What should I say the next time I see him? Its so hard to be alone. Actually once we were alone in the elevator and I said nothing! I hate myself for not saying a peep! I just stared at the elevator door, ugh! Can anyone give me some advice on what should I do, it would make me feel a lot better. Even if I am not his type at least I tried. when I was 16 I fell for a guy, it took me three years to get over him and I never told him how I felt or nothing. I just don’t want this guy to get away from being too shy. Thank You.

LilMissTragic · Expert User Joined: Sep 05, 2004 Posts: 803

What great time, Christmas is coming up, hows about sending him an xmas card, maybe with a little note...be brave, go for it. Its better to know either way wether or not you have a chance, I hope you do. Good luck Smile

MRnomates · Intermediate User Joined: Sep 26, 2004 Posts: 114

I say try bending over in front of him that'll get him going it works on me.

Drop something on the floor

LilMissTragic · Expert User Joined: Sep 05, 2004 Posts: 803

Lmao...hmmm, are we going back to our animal ways now?...lol.

MRnomates · Intermediate User Joined: Sep 26, 2004 Posts: 114

LOL Its abit of flirting an't it all girls want mounting eventually lol

nerdgirl178 · Posted: Mon Dec 13, 2004 6:15 pm Post subject:

I know he just came from the Military. I was thinking of asking him is he is going back to duty or somehting! Giving him an X-Mas card is so corny, especially Valentines Day, its so not my thing. Well whatever, its just that he is so damn social that is makes me extra nervous. well I will try to say something, even if i look like a complete idiot, atleast I tried. I think he should get to know me I am pretty fun even htought I have SP Smile

Yossarian · Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2004 1:44 pm Post subject:

I have no real advice but I wish you luck.

nerdgirl178 · Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2004 2:54 am Post subject:

I would love to heard stories on how people here got his or her boyfriend/girlfirned? It'll be interesting Smile

MRnomates · Intermediate User Joined: Sep 26, 2004 Posts: 114

Ask him for a lift home from work, thats how 1 of mine started

Dill · Posted: Sun Dec 19, 2004 12:57 pm Post subject:

Just Go for it. And talk to him. Maybe start off with a good morning and how r u?
Life Rewards the Courages Few.