This is really funny that this is a post topic because i've been in the process of convincing my dad that i am not gay with one of my only friends. It doesn't help that we're naturally nervous and secretive when trying to convince someone that you are not, and really why should you have to convince anyone? Right now i'm pretty hurt and angry that my own father questions me, especially since i thought of him as one of the closest people to me. I've pretty much taken an "i dont give a f*ck" stance on it at this point after telling him i wasn't, that's about as much as you can do. I would say it's not worth it to try and convince people beyond telling them the truth, they're idiots and they'll think what they want. I think they're more likely to believe you're not gay if you don't let their accusations bother you in any way or make you feel you have to convice them.
Posted: Sat Sep 02, 2006 6:19 am Post subject: OK GUYS! WE NEED TO FIND A SOLUTION TO THIS!
You are all right! Its really annoying when all people around you think youre gay for different issues.
Dude! it really f^$king pisses me off that all chicks and hotties think im gay because i dont react to their flirt. Some girls think Im gay because they dont see me make a move when they get closer to me (which is the moment they expect me to know they want me to talk to them and flirt).
I AM STRAIGHT, AND I AM 100% SURE I AM STRAIGHT. I am very distracted though, every move someone makes, I stare at it. Sometimes, I Accidentally stare at guys butt (ACCIDENTALLY), others have caught me do that and start spreading the rumor. I dont like men, I am always staring at girls asses and titties bro. I dream about sex with girls, I want to have a girlfriend, I want to feel a girls ass, i want to have a relationship with women, i want to be a player.
BUT IM JUST TO SHY AND INTROVERT. Because Im quiet and shy, guys think im gay. I dress very good, nice watch, nice shirts and pants, very fine silk clothes and cool jerseys. I always dress good even if im going to mow the lawn.
Hey, if theres anyone with good advise, I'd really appreciate it, we should all help each other because this situation is going to be here for the rest of our lives. I want to solve this issue and finally loose virginity with a fine woman.
DO YOU KNOW WHAT PISSES ME OFF? BECAUSE SO MANY PEOPLE THINK IM GAY, I ACTUALLY GET IN DOUBT ONCE IN A WHILE. BUT DAMN! I AM NOT, I BE THINKING ABOUT WOMEN ALL THE TIME. CANT WAIT TO TAKE A GIRL TO BED.
Anyone with advise, or ideas about a solution. Id really appreciate it again.
Oh man, i really need to solve this, im 20 years old, I really really cant stop thinking of women, i need to get a gf. The problem with this is: that the obsession of women can make people break the law and do things you really should do. Specially the sick rapists.
If i dont find a solution, i really feel i might turn into a psycho. i really need to get a girl at least for making out. My shyness builds barriers around me everywhere.
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good luck to all !!
I'm the complete opposite, no one thinks im gay but actually.. i am. i only accepted myself as being gay about 2 years ago, and im yet to come out to my parents. im quite outgoing and very 'straight acting' so when i tell people they cannot believe it. But best advice i can give you is, who cares if people think your gay as long as you know what you are, then ignore these fools. probably the people who take the micky are the ones who are unsure of themselves.
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Posted: Thu Oct 26, 2006 6:34 pm Post subject:
My sexuality has been questioned numerous times by people in my own family and to me that is the worse. My grandmother, my dad, an aunt, and cousins have all asked me if I'm gay. It really really hurts my feelings and makes me feel so awful. They think that because I am 21 and I don't have a boyfriend and have never been on a date that I am gay. Well, I AM NOT GAY. I want a boyfriend really bad but situations in my life have just made it very difficult. So I definitely understand where you all are coming from.
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