Karamn, its really tough i know believe me but the problem doesn't just disappear you have to fight it. do you get red when you know your going to party or you meet certain people i do, going red and the fear of going red as caused me to have anxiety which is crazy as im confident but because of the fear of going red i did stoopgoing out to social events even meeting up with the girls can cause me to have these huge red patches on my neck and chest which take about an hour to go away. Bascially we have to be strong. My worst memory was at my 16th birthday party when my mum saw my red patches on my neck and face. she was so hurt and i saw her crying to my aunt and saying why does she have to have this problem im crying while im writing cause the thing that hurt the most was not the redness but my mums face when she saw me. see your doctor and a counciller ok chat soon bye to all blusing beauty's
sometimes if i go to a place where i have had a bad blushing attack then i'll start blushing. I'm also very sensitive to the words red, embarresed, and blush. when ever I hear people say those words it makes me feel really sad and scared. I wish I could just go back to how i used to be, life, and school were so much more enjoyable when i didnt have to worry all the time. My parents help me as much as they can, my dad always tells me the more i learn to deal with it the less it will happen and the more it wont bother me. I'm really thankful that you understand because i really want to talk but i'm just scared that i'll start to think about being red and then it will happen.
sometimes if i go to a place where i have had a bad blushing attack then i'll start blushing. I'm also very sensitive to the words red, embarresed, and blush. when ever I hear people say those words it makes me feel really sad and scared. I wish I could just go back to how i used to be, life, and school were so much more enjoyable when i didnt have to worry all the time. My parents help me as much as they can, my dad always tells me the more i learn to deal with it the less it will happen and the more it wont bother me. I'm really thankful that you understand because i really want to talk but i'm just scared that i'll start to think about being red and then it will happen.
Hi Kareman, your Dad is right you have to just throw yourself into life, i know this sounds crazy but the more you face it the easier it becomes next week i have to do a talk in class i am just gonna get on with it have by bottle of water next to me and take a deep breath and go for it speak soon im so tired. but defently chat to your doctor. take care and stay positive.
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