It's not really the redness that's the problem. The problem is the association your mind makes with the feeling of getting red. The mind is linked, indellibly, to associations we've grown accustom to. As soon as we begin to flush, we feel the heat and it triggers a reactionary emotion that is impossible to just reverse by a quick change in thinking. It takes a comination of clinical help and trial and error. For the clinical help, seek out alternate medicines, herbs, even things that are placebos or have no direct correlation to blushing. If you think they are going to work, it can help. For trial and error, find something you are really good at and revel in it, so much so that it borders on cockiness. But who cares if people perceive you as cocky? Your first priority is to love yourself so that you can love other people as well as you want to.
..what i don't like about it is..if i'm blushing simply cause i'm having a bad time with my anxiety....and some guy i'm serving coffee to thinks it's some kind of cute....sign...or whatever.... that i'm flattered that he's flirting with me...or that i think he's hot or something....that's really annoying
yeah i don't think blushing is that bad. it's kind of sweet for guys and girls. i blush a lot & it's noticeable because i have really light skin. but i think it's kind of interesting how your emotions can show like that and you know you're not faking it.
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