What qualities men/guys like in their soulmate?

Lonelyheart · Newbie User Joined: Oct 08, 2006 Posts: 65

My dream girl would be sweet, kind, compassionate, caring, lovable, honest, faithful, sexually pure, innocent, adorable, sensitive, clean, organized, neat, modest, polite, intelligent, accepting, sophisticated, nuturing, shy, and soft-spoken. The more of these personality characteristics she exhibits the better. My personality is similar to what is listed above, and I think that, for personality, likes attract.

I admit, that beauty is also somewhat important to me. The most important physical attributes to me in order are:

1. Beautiful, cute face
2. Petite
3. Healthy body figure
4. Medium to long hair

Kinetik · Posted: Tue Nov 21, 2006 7:45 am Post subject:

I'm into women that are very human. Those who can open their hearts, be on my wavelength, talk to me properly and discuss their hopes, dreams, and fears. I like girls that have realistic expectations of me, who aren't overly clingy or insecure, and who are understanding of the fact that I need space and that I'm pretty tricky at times. It's important that she looks up to me, respects me, and makes me feel like a man. She would also have to be honest. It's a plus if she's somewhat caring and affectionate, and is okay with being kind of traditional in that sense. Sex is also something to think about. She would have to be comfortable with it and not afraid to express herself in that way; I don't have a massive sex drive, but when I want it, I want it. She does have to appeal to me in the visual department as well, but I don't have a certain type at all and I'm definitely not super-critical with it. I must've fallen for every single kind of woman at least three times over during the course of my life. The only appearance-based consistency is that every girl I've dated has been short. I'm 6'4'' myself, so maybe it's an opposites-attract thing. But yeah, that pretty much covers it. Not picky at all huh?

cloaked · Posted: Tue Nov 21, 2006 3:51 pm Post subject:

i just want a girl who understands me and accepts me for who i am. a girl who i can love and who loves me back. a girl who would never hurt me by cheating or beiung cruel to me and i would never do the same to her.

i don't think i will ever find a girl because i have tried so many times. Sad

i know they all hate me because i am skinny.

Kinetik · Posted: Tue Nov 21, 2006 5:14 pm Post subject:

I forgot to add that if a woman keeps going on about her period, it's usually a bit of a dealbreaker. Why women are so comfortable telling me of all people about their menstruation, I'll never know.

shipost · Posted: Tue Nov 21, 2006 8:45 pm Post subject:

For me:

- confident in herself
- ok looks(nothing amazing just not bad where i feel sick looking at her)
- likes to travel
- good sense of humour
- somone who doesnt seen 'time' to pack and stuff, like needing a week to plan to go a weekend away when you could be packed in a few hours and be there.
- somone who likes riding on back of motorbike

perfect girl for me, bring her to me

Quixote · Advanced User Joined: Mar 14, 2006 Posts: 450