Hi I am new here, I know how it feels, although I just got out of my first relationship with a girl about 2 months ago. I am 22 now 21 when I met her and it lasted 4 months, and problems with me and her didn't let it work out. She kind of just left, and hasn't talked to me which hasn't help my already low confidence and feelings I get. It was great while it lasted though, I thought I would never have a girlfriend. I believe there will be someone out there though for everybody.
Hey im new here too and ive never had a gf and im 19 now.
although im trying to turn things around now ive started uni and ive been trying to go out to pubs with people.
come to think of it the first night i came here i went out with a load of other guys on the same course and some girls came over and started chatting to me but i screwed it up and couldnt talk very much.
one left and the other eventually got bored and started talking to one of the other guys who had no prob talking :/
I have the same problem except I'm a girl. Arrrgghh i just dont get it! I can understand people thinking i was too flat and too quiet in jr. high. But in High school I actually talk to people now. They just dont think i'm interesting or anything. I have to watch my friends have boyfriends/girlfriends and just pretend to be happy. I do like one boy, but he probably only thinks of me as a friend.
I do like one boy, but he probably only thinks of me as a friend.
Maybe he likes u too, but he's too shy to admit it. Kinda like my situation. I know someone who likes/liked me for a while now (i was never told that she likes me, it's just obvious that she does/did) and she has no idea how much I like her. I don't have the balls to talk to her but at least I give her signs that i'm interested. (probably why she hasn't given up yet, hahah). Whenever u get a chance, try to do nice things for him and when u see him by himself go up to him and try to start some small-talk. That's what this girl is trying with me, but as always i screw things up!
Maybe! I have my doubts though. People think I'm really weird lol. They look at me one minute and they know. I think he just talks to me because he knows I'm lonely.
That's awesome that someone likes you though. You should definetly go for it
Joined: Feb 18, 2007 Posts: 58 Location: England, Warks
Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 12:19 am Post subject:
I suggest we all meet up! I'm 18 and never been asked out. Now that i have left it so long (no offense to anyone older) that it has become an even bigger deal. When you are 14/15 it's normal to have never kissed before, maybe expected, but now, if ever *fingers crossed* someone asked me out, they would expect me to be all experienced, but i've never kissed anyone, i bet i would be crap at it As for anything else, how on earth do you have sex with SA? i don't understand Anyone else have this problem?
I'm almost 23 and never been even close to being in a relationship either. I have kissed a girl once, but I was so wasted I barely remember it. Being intoxicated is the only way I can easily communicate with people. Well actually, even then it's sometimes hard it initialize a conversation, but it's easier to keep it going.
Joined: Feb 18, 2007 Posts: 58 Location: England, Warks
Posted: Mon Feb 26, 2007 11:47 pm Post subject:
mylifesucks wrote:
I'm almost 23 and never been even close to being in a relationship either. I have kissed a girl once, but I was so wasted I barely remember it. Being intoxicated is the only way I can easily communicate with people. Well actually, even then it's sometimes hard it initialize a conversation, but it's easier to keep it going.
I've never been drunk either, I don't really go out. And even if I did i wouldn't drink much for fear of making a fool out of myself
Completely can relate. Never been on a date, never came close to the first kiss, don't have any guy friends..
And i really don't want to go there.
And that's the problem with SA/AvPD.
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