Joined: Apr 07, 2004 Posts: 339 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: Mon Jan 03, 2005 1:01 am Post subject:
Michelob512 wrote:
Crimefish wrote:
So, in conclusion, I'm wasting my time, energy and sanity.
That's being pretty harsh on yourself. Have you tried therapy? Either way, there are probably ways to work around your SA. So you have panic attacks around just one other person? How about your family? if your tutor knew about your SA and was someone you could trust, would that make things any different?
I'm having therapy right now. I have panic attacks around everyone except my immediate family. I do work with my mum at the moment 'cause I know I won't get any work done if I try to do it with my tutors. I just can't trust them. For no rational reason. And It's fine right now, working without them, but I need a tutor to watch me while I take my tests. Which is like a spider watching an arachnophobe. Very productive I'm sure.
Joined: Dec 22, 2004 Posts: 45 Location: Australia
Posted: Mon Jan 03, 2005 1:24 am Post subject:
I completed a Bachelor of Science degree in early 2003, but haven't had a job since then. I've never had a proper job in my whole life actually. I think that is a small part of why I'm so shy and stuff, the earlier in life you get out there and get some self confidence, the better off you'll be.
Joined: Oct 14, 2004 Posts: 112 Location: Australia
Posted: Mon Jan 03, 2005 2:37 am Post subject:
I just completed high school then got a job working in a supermarket. Barely made it through school as I had no idea what I wanted to do and the bullys were really getting to me so I gave up trying after awhile.
Joined: Dec 30, 2004 Posts: 30 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: Mon Jan 03, 2005 2:38 am Post subject:
I quit school at 15 after my exams, left with pretty good grades. Couldnt get a job anywhere, sat alone in my house for over a year and a half.
Finally got into college just before i turned 17. At the minute im off because of the holidays, go back in a week or so, then finish the course 1st february.
Then the next level of the course im doing isnt until September, so i'll be doing nothing for 7 months unless i pick up the courage to go get myself a job, which is very unlikely.
For me working has been horrible. Even since finishing GCSE and getting a job, it has all been downhill. I think the lack of social interaction is to blame.
Joined: Oct 14, 2004 Posts: 420 Location: 44/M/Miami, FL
Posted: Tue Jan 04, 2005 12:38 pm Post subject:
I was taking college courses while in junior high, because I was bored. At 16 I droppped out and had my GED within weeks. I received my Associates in Science in Computer Programming at 18.
But working has been difficult. My first boss suggested I join Toastmasters, that was more than 20 years ago. I should have listened to him. I thought it would be ok to be shy. But later I was placed in cubicles, which I can't stand. When I have a private office to work in, I have stayed at those jobs for years. But cubicle jobs only last weeks for me.
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